12/24/2025
How to Relax & Truly Enjoy the Holidays
⨠The holidays are cozy⌠and chaotic. As the days get colder and sunlight slips away, many of us crave blankets, soup, movies, and slow momentsâyet find ourselves pulled in every direction by family gatherings, work, shopping, expectations, and the pressure to âkeep up.â
đ If youâve ever scrolled past perfectly decorated homes, flawless cookies, or picture-perfect festivities and felt overwhelmed, behind, or just not enoughâyouâre not alone. The holidays can bring joy, but they can also bring stress, grief, financial strain, and emotional exhaustion. This season, take a breath.
Here are a few grounding reminders inspired by our very own Victoria Brown to help you protect your peace:
đ Be kindâto yourself and others. Everyone carries invisible burdensâseasonal depression, anxiety, loss, burnout. A little extra kindness goes a long way (and comes back to you, too).
đ Simplify where you can. Make a list. Cross off what doesnât truly matter. Ask for help when tasks feel heavy. You donât have to do it allâand you donât have to do it alone.
đ Focus on what counts. Not the âperfect holiday,â but the moments: laughter in the kitchen, hot cocoa with friends, old movies, board games, music filling the house. These memoriesânot the decorationsâstick with us.
đ Give yourself space to breathe. Try a quick grounding exercise:Find a quiet spot, breathe deeply, and focus on your inhale and exhale for 1â2 minutes. Let wandering thoughts pass and gently return to your breath. Or settle in for a few minutes of meditationâslow breathing, closed eyes, and awareness on your body.
⨠The holidays can be magicalâbut only if you slow down enough to feel them. Protect your peace. Welcome what matters. Let the rest go.
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