11/10/2025
A surprising new study suggests that constantly trying to please others may come at a hidden cost to your health. People who habitually put others’ needs above their own—chronic people pleasers, may be at higher risk of developing autoimmune diseases, conditions where the immune system mistakenly attacks the body.
Researchers believe the connection lies in chronic stress. Continually suppressing personal needs and emotions can trigger prolonged stress responses, causing inflammation and overactivation of the immune system. Over time, this can increase vulnerability to autoimmune conditions like lupus, rheumatoid arthritis, or thyroid disorders.
The study highlights a crucial link between mental health, emotional boundaries, and physical wellness. Learning to assert yourself, set boundaries, and prioritise self-care isn’t just about happiness, it’s essential for your immune health. Your body and mind are deeply connected, and ignoring either can have lasting consequences.