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02/06/2026

Self-awareness is an important part of development across the life span and part of the sanctification process. Psalm 139:23-24

01/26/2026

Full post at link in bio ☝️
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01/26/2026

A lot of Christians are trying to become less human in the name of holiness.

But maturity is not numbness.
And spirituality is not disconnection from your emotional life.

If you were given emotions, they have a purpose.

They are signals.
They are data.
They are invitations.

And if you keep trying to amputate your emotional world, it won’t disappear.

It will leak out sideways into control, criticism, shutdown, compulsions, avoidance, and resentment.

We don’t need emotional suppression.
We need emotional discipleship.

This is why I love giving families language.
When something can be named, it can be tended to.

01/26/2026

Hey Tabi! episode is live!!

We talk about something I don’t think we’re taking seriously enough:

Loneliness is not the same thing as solitude. Solitude is chosen.
Loneliness is disconnection.

Modern culture keeps telling people: “Pull yourself up by your bootstraps.”

But humans were not built to self-rescue forever.

You were made for community where you can be known, safe, and honest.

And yes, physical touch matters. Appropriate, safe touch is a gift of the Lord.
It’s part of co-regulation, which is one of the most basic nervous system needs we have.

If you’re craving connection but feel ashamed of it, please hear me: That craving might not be weakness. It might be wisdom.

Go listen. Then come tell me what line hit you the hardest.

Episode link is in my stories today.
E-motion Monster Link in bio 👆

01/25/2026

01/24/2026

I’m so honored to be a guest on Hey Tabi (Tabitha Westbrook’s Poscast). The episode comes out in two days 🤩. I’ll be talking about Godly emotions.
A lot of Christians were never taught emotional literacy.
They were taught emotional avoidance. Many of us learned that emotions are either:
sinful
dramatic
inconvenient
something to pray away fast
But emotions are not moral failures.
They’re signals.
They’re more like a check engine light than a character flaw.
In this episode we talk about the E-motion Monsters cards, why naming emotions changes families, and why “stuffing it down” always comes out sideways.

01/22/2026

Genesis named a woman “Ornament.”
Another one “Shadow.”
And we act like the Bible endorses patriarchy.
Here’s what you missed:
When Scripture names women as decoration and background, it’s not prescribing how things should be.
It’s diagnosing how far we’d fallen.
Genesis 2: Woman created as image-bearer, partner, “bone of my bones”
Genesis 4: Women named Adah (ornament) and Zillah (shadow)
By the time we get to Lamech—the guy who boasts about killing and takes two wives—women aren’t partners anymore.
They’re:
- Valued for appearance (ornament)
- Or tolerated in obscurity (shadow)
One is seen. One is hidden.
Both are reduced.
This isn’t ancient history. This is:

- Women valued primarily for how they look
- Worth tied to youth and beauty standards
- “Trophy wife” language
- Essential work going unacknowledged
- Expected to be agreeable and pleasant
- Penalized for having boundaries

The system Genesis 4 exposed is still operating.
But watch what happens:
After these names, women almost disappear from the text.
Not because they stopped existing, but because Scripture is showing us: when women are reduced to function, they vanish from the story even though they’re still there.

Then, when does the next woman get named?

Genesis 11. Sarah.
Her name doesn’t mean ornament or shadow.
It means princess.
Dignity. Standing. Personhood.
And she appears exactly when God re-enters history redemptively.
When covenant replaces domination, women get their names back.
Then Jesus shows up and treats women as:
- Full image-bearers
- Essential witnesses (first to see resurrection!)
- Disciples and teachers
- Valued for who they are, not what they provide

Genesis 4 shows the fracture.
Jesus shows the restoration.

The question is: Which system are you living in?
Are you reducing women to ornament, shadow, pleasant aesthetic?
Or are you seeing them—really seeing them—as full image-bearers of God?
The names tell the story. Pay attention.
New blog post at link in bio 🔥

01/17/2026

Humans didn’t lose Eden by force.
They lost it by listening to the wrong voice.
Because that’s how the enemy works.
Not usually with obvious evil.
Not usually with open violence.
But with language.
A subtle twist.
A small distortion.
A “Did God really say…?” moment. (Genesis 3:1)
The serpent didn’t attack Eve’s body first.
He attacked her trust.
He undermined God’s character.
He reframed reality.
And he did it with words.
And honestly?
That same strategy is still working on us today.
Because you can’t always tell the difference between conviction and condemnation…
until you look at the fruit.
God’s voice is steady. Clear. Loving. Holy.
The enemy’s voice is urgent. Accusing. Shaming. Confusing.
So here’s a gentle but direct question:
Are you listening to distortions and receiving them as truth?
🔸 “You’re too much.”
🔸 “You’re not enough.”
🔸 “God is disappointed in you.”
🔸 “You’re behind.”
🔸 “You should be over this by now.”
🔸 “You can’t trust anyone.”
That is not the voice of the Shepherd.
Jesus says, “My sheep hear my voice.” (John 10:27)
And Scripture reminds us: “There is therefore now no condemnation for those who are in Christ Jesus.” (Romans 8:1)
God’s first words to humanity weren’t fear.
They were provision and permission.
“You may surely eat…” (Genesis 2:16)
A boundary with blessing.
A Father who provides.
A God who can be trusted.
So today, pause and test the voice:
Does it lead you to hiding… or to the light?
“God is light, and in him is no darkness at all.” (1 John 1:5)
Does it produce fear… or love?
“Perfect love casts out fear.” (1 John 4:18)
Does it accuse… or invite you home?
“Come to me… and I will give you rest.” (Matthew 11:28)
You were created for truth.
You were created for love.
You were created to live in communion with God - not confusion.
Let Him re-anchor your mind today. 🤍

01/04/2026

Genesis 3 isn’t just about the fall.
It’s about what happens when trust breaks in our most fundamental relationship.
The serpent didn’t start with temptation—he started by questioning God’s goodness.
“Did God really say...?”
Fear entered before behavior changed.
And suddenly:
→ Intimacy felt dangerous
→ They hid from the One who loved them most
→ Autonomy became survival, not strength
→ Shame arrived before judgment did
Sound familiar?
Every relationship pattern has roots here:

Hiding instead of being honest
Blaming instead of being vulnerable
Self-reliance instead of healthy dependence
Withdrawing when we need connection most

But here’s the hope: God still came looking. He still covered their shame. He guarded the way back—didn’t destroy it.
Genesis 3 tells us we’re fearful people who hide when trust is broken.
And it tells us God never stops pursuing.
The way forward isn’t perfection. It’s the courage to stop hiding.
Link for the full post: https://theahavaway.com/from-the-therapy-room

01/04/2026

Staying connected in marriage often feels harder than it “should.”

Not because you’re failing, not because your spouse is the enemy, but because fear fractures trust.

Genesis 3 isn’t just a theology of sin. It’s a map of what happens to relationships when safety is lost.

Fear leads to shame.
Shame leads to hiding.
Hiding leads to blame and control.

Those patterns don’t mean your marriage is broken beyond repair. They mean your nervous systems learned to protect connection when it felt unsafe.

Healing isn’t about winning arguments or fixing each other.
It’s about restoring safety so connection can breathe again. Read more at https://theahavaway.com/from-the-therapy-room/creation-attachment-and-the-fall-why-genesis-3-explains-so-much-about-our-relationships