12/20/2025
Monday on AR-The AR-The Other side of Addiction Podcast Ep #367 Co-Dependency; A Way Out of Despair Into A Life of Freedom With Laney Lawrimore
Laney D Lawrimore is a grateful believer in Jesus who celebrates recovery from drugs, alcohol, s*x addiction, and codependency. As a public speaker and recovery advocate, she openly shares her story to help others find hope and healing. Together with her husband, Laney supports the recovery community through sponsorship, speaking, live events, and social media outreach. Her mission is to help others discover a way out of despair and into a life of freedom, purpose, and joy. You can find Laney on Facebook, Instagram, and TikTok
Life has a way of sending us in circles. We swear we’re choosing differently… only to find ourselves with the same type of partner, the same pain, the same heartbreak — again. And then the question hits us like a brick:
“WHY DO I KEEP DOING THIS?”
In this episode, Laney Lawrimore helps us break down the truth behind co-dependency — not as a label, but as a pattern of survival we’ve lived in for far too long.
We unpack the many faces of co-dependency:
• People-pleasing
• Enabling
• Emotional rescuing
• Being the savior
• Becoming the fixer
• Carrying the weight of everyone else’s chaos while ignoring our own
Here’s the hard truth:
We cannot fix or change anyone else, especially when we’re drowning in the same behaviors ourselves.
And the more we try to save others, the more we quietly destroy our own life.
Laney shared something powerful — God will continue giving us the same lesson until we finally learn it. Once we recognize the pattern, everything shifts. Life starts aligning. Clarity shows up. Peace begins to return.
Co-dependency convinces us that love means carrying someone else’s life on our back. But real love — healthy love — begins with taking responsibility for our own healing first.
Because when we don’t, we rob others of the accountability they desperately need… and we rob ourselves of the freedom God is trying to give us.
And here’s the reminder we all need:
We were never meant to do life on our own.
Call it God, the Universe, Spirit — it doesn’t matter. What matters is recognizing that healing requires something bigger than us. Strength comes from surrender. Freedom comes from letting go of what was never ours to carry.
This episode is a wake-up call, a mirror, and a roadmap out of despair and into a life of emotional freedom.