02/16/2026
Relax and have a good time with what is, not with what will be or what was." — Gurudev Shri Amritji
You tell yourself you want to relax, but what you often want is relief from feeling.
You reach for TV, scrolling, substances, constant activity, or "just one more task," because staying occupied feels safer than being present.
Those habits may distract you, but they rarely restore you. The body is busy while the nervous system stays on guard.
Relaxation is not distraction. Relaxation is the end of inner resistance. It is the moment you stop arguing with what is here. It is meeting the present without needing it to be different first. When you stop fighting the moment, the moment stops fighting you.
The mind promises, "I will relax when the work is done, when the conflict is resolved, when I finally have time." But "later" keeps moving, because the habit of bracing has become normal. You do not notice how tightly you hold yourself until you try to let go.
Yoga trains your relationship with sensation, thought, and emotion. In Shavasana, you are not making tension disappear.
You are allowing it to be there without pushing against it. You let the floor support you, you let the breath be honest, and you let the body soften from the inside. When you stop trying to "do relaxation," the body receives permission to unbrace.
Try something simple now. Let your exhale lengthen for one breath. Unclench the jaw. Soften the belly. Feel what is supporting you. Notice the part of you that is trying to fix the moment, and release that effort by one degree.
Relaxation is not escaping reality. Relaxation is intimacy with reality. When you meet what is with friendliness, you discover space and a quiet joy that does not depend on perfect conditions.
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