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Thalidamide and DES (diethylstilbestrol) are two of history’s most glaring examples that just because a doctor prescribe...
12/12/2025

Thalidamide and DES (diethylstilbestrol) are two of history’s most glaring examples that just because a doctor prescribes a medication-does NOT mean we know it is safe for use in pregnancy. Thalidamide’s drastic effects caused its usage to be quickly discovered and discontinued -though far too late for thousands of families who faced terrible loss or a lifetime of suffering. Fortunately US families were spared this tragedy by one brave woman!
But DES was given for a decade before they realised it wasn’t helping as they hoped-and it was an additional 20 years before all the negative outcomes for the next two generations would be fully known.
Historically drug companies have excluded pregnant women from medical tests/clinical drug trials-(over ethical and liability concerns like thalidamide) so for most new treatment options-moms and doctors are left to guess if benefits outweigh risks. So mostly there are two catagories of drugs. Those we KNOW cause harm to a developing fetus (because some other families have had those harms happen to them) and drugs we haven’t found problems with yet.
Do your due diligence in researching ANY medication you may be offered during pregnancy.-especially in the first trimester when body systems are forming. How long has it been in use? What are the known risks and side effects? Are there non pharmacologic alternatives you can use to treat your problem? Make sure the benefits and medical need really outweigh any risks.

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In 1960, a miracle drug was sweeping the world. Thalidomide—safe, modern, perfect for morning sickness. Approved in over twenty countries. Millions of pills sold. The American pharmaceutical company Richardson-Merrell had already stocked warehouses with ten million tablets, ready to flood U.S. markets.
The FDA approval was supposed to be a formality.
Then it landed on the desk of Dr. Frances Oldham Kelsey. She'd been at the FDA exactly one month. She was one of only seven doctors reviewing drugs for the entire agency. This was her first assignment. Her supervisors expected her to sign off quickly.
She didn't.
The testing data had gaps. The safety claims for pregnant women didn't match the evidence. Animal studies were weak. Human trials incomplete. The "scientific studies" were actually marketing materials. She had questions.
The company expected approval before Christmas. They pushed back. Hard.
Sales reps crowded her office. Phone calls day and night. Over eighteen months, company officials contacted her and her supervisors fifty separate times. They went over her head. They called her names she later said "you wouldn't print."
Every sixty days, the law required her to either approve the drug or request more information. Every sixty days, she found the new data inadequate. Every sixty days, she refused to sign.
Why was this junior medical officer holding up a wonder drug over technicalities?
Because years earlier, as a researcher at the University of Chicago, she'd studied how drugs cross the placental barrier to affect developing embryos. When she saw claims about thalidomide's safety in pregnancy, she wondered: had anyone tested what happens when it reaches a developing fetus?
Nobody had.
Then Europe started noticing something horrifying.
Babies born with arms and legs grotesquely shortened or missing entirely. Hands sprouting directly from shoulders like flippers. Eyes, ears, hearts malformed. At first, scattered cases. Then impossible to ignore.
All the mothers had taken thalidomide during days 20-36 of pregnancy—the exact window when limbs form.
More than 10,000 children affected across forty-six countries. About half died shortly after birth. Survivors faced lifetimes of profound disability. Germany pulled the drug in November 1961. Britain in December. But the damage was done.
In America? Seventeen confirmed cases.
Not seventeen thousand. Seventeen.
Because one woman refused to accept insufficient evidence.
When the news broke in mid-1962, Americans realized what had been avoided. The Washington Post ran a front-page story calling Kelsey a heroine who prevented "the birth of hundreds or indeed thousands of armless and legless children."
On August 7, 1962, President Kennedy gave her the highest civilian honor the U.S. can bestow. She was only the second woman ever to receive it.
But the story didn't end with an award.
Congress unanimously passed sweeping drug reform in October 1962. For the first time, companies had to prove drugs not only were safe but actually worked. They had to report adverse reactions. Obtain informed consent for trials. Testing standards became rigorous. Oversight became strong.
Frances Kelsey helped write those regulations. She headed the division implementing them. Her team earned the nickname "Kelsey's cops" for their rigorous oversight. She worked forty-five years at the FDA, retiring in 2005 at age ninety.
She died peacefully in 2015 at 101 years old—exactly fifty-three years after receiving Kennedy's medal.
She never made a groundbreaking discovery. Never invented a lifesaving device. Never developed a cure.
She just refused to accept inadequate evidence. She asked questions when everyone wanted quick approval. She demanded proof when proof didn't exist. She withstood pressure from powerful corporations and held firm.
Her decision saved thousands of American families from devastating heartbreak. Her example shaped modern medicine. Her legacy protects every person who takes prescription drugs today.
All because one doctor understood that courage isn't always about saying yes.
Sometimes the most important word in medicine is no.

The CDC has just voted to change its recommendation on the newborn dose of the Hepatitis B vaccine.  For decades, it has...
12/08/2025

The CDC has just voted to change its recommendation on the newborn dose of the Hepatitis B vaccine. For decades, it has been routinely given to all infants within hours of birth.
The new recommendation suggests only giving it to newborns whose moms are positive for Hepatitis B, or whose status is unknown.
Hepatitis is a sexually and blood borne pathogen. Mother to infant transmission occures during birth, and if contracted,it can lead to chronic liver disease and even death.
They have not stopped recommending the Hepatitis series completely for those infants of Hepatitis negative moms- but adjusted the first dose delay to 2 months or later. They are further suggesting after a dose, titers (levels of immunity)may be assessed to see if further doses are needed-rathar than automatically giving the 3 dose series.
This is leaving the choice up to families and their doctors to review and handle risk assessment and personalize care to meet individual needs.
While this vote is not finalized, and there is some controversy, I applaud the more focused, autonomy granting decision. Medicine is not a one size-fits all field! Anyone who needs or wants it, may absolutely receive this vaccine for their infant! Those for whom risk is low to absent will face less paperwork and pushback in declining an extra intervention.

Formula recall for Botulism contamination!  Moms looking for organic formula options who have purchased ByHeart formula ...
11/12/2025

Formula recall for Botulism contamination!
Moms looking for organic formula options who have purchased ByHeart formula should stop using it immediately. Over 15 babies across the nation have been hospitalized with botulism toxin poisoning after consuming this formula.
An initial recall only pulled 2 lot numbers but the recall has been expanded to all cans and the anywhere pack single serve pouches.
Do not continue to feed this to your baby- return to the store you purchased it from for a refund.

As a L&D nurse- we watched and studied fetal heart tracings like hawks for any signs of concern.  Never once did i quest...
11/06/2025

As a L&D nurse- we watched and studied fetal heart tracings like hawks for any signs of concern. Never once did i question the status quo-or the evidence behind continuous fetal heart monitoring.
It was a beautiful paradigm shift for me, as a doula, to step into the world of low intervention birth, home births, and intermittent monitoring with midwife groups.
This is a very interesting read about the history and evidence (or lack of)behind the standard hospital birth protocol of continuous monitoring.
(Note: I’m NOT saying no one should be continuously monitored- instead-that perhaps like so many other interventions-it is not one size fits all!)

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Round-the-clock fetal monitoring leads to unnecessary C-sections. But it’s used in nearly every birth because of business and legal concerns, The Times found.

Have you heard of the 5 P’s of labor progress?There are 5 major factors that contribute to the natural progress of labor...
09/07/2025

Have you heard of the 5 P’s of labor progress?There are 5 major factors that contribute to the natural progress of labor to the desired outcome of a safe, vaginal delivery. When labor does not progress as expected- each of these areas can be looked at and adjusted so progress may continue.
***Passenger-the baby! While we can’t change the baby’s size, the position of the baby(which way they are facing), the flexion or extention of their neck can determine how easily they pass through the the birth canal. We can help baby move into a better position! And the baby itself is made with a moldable head it changes shape to fit through!- Our miraculous bodies were designed for this!
***Passage- The bony structure of the pelvis, and the soft structures of the pelvic floor muscles and perenium. Many people think of the pelvis as one solid bony structure- but it’s comprised of three articulating bones-your flexibility going into labor, and the way you move during labor (position changes!) can absolutely make more space, helping your baby to more easily fit through.
*** Power. Contractions. How strong and frequent are the contractions working to move the baby down, and through? There are natural, and medical ways to increase the power of contractions, and interventions that can help us assess if the strength is adequate so this can be perfectly balanced.
***Position- closely relate to passage- the position of maternal body from arms, to back and hips, even the rotation of your legs and ankles changes the space baby has to move through. Laying on your back in the bed for hours is NOT helping your birth progression!
***Psyche. Maternal mental and emotional state.
Our bodies can only be in the sympathetic nervous system (fight or flight-upset/afraid) or in the parasympathetic nervous system (feed & breed-relaxed, where oxytocin in produced). If we are upset and feel unsafe- our body literally slows or stops our labor progress!
Each of these vital pieces help determine if labor progresses fast, slow, or not at all. As a doula, I’m trained to help laboring moms maximize what can be adjusted in each of these factors, helping you reach for your best birth.
Is it any wonder that research shows mothers with experienced doulas have shorter labors, with fewer interventions, less pain medications, better birth memories, and up to 30% lower csection rates?

As a mother who has received donor milk both for adoption as I built my supply, and a critically ill baby with a congeni...
07/23/2025

As a mother who has received donor milk both for adoption as I built my supply, and a critically ill baby with a congenital heart defect, I can attest to the miracle that donor milk can be!
The time and dedication she sacrifices to save the most vulnerable among is awe-inspiring!


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Alyse Ogletree, a 36-year-old from Flower Mound, Texas, has indeed set a new Guinness World Record by donating 2,645.58 liters of breast milk, surpassing her own 2014 record of 1,569.79 liters.

Her donations, primarily to the Mothers’ Milk Bank of North Texas, have helped nourish an estimated 350,000 premature babies, as each liter can feed approximately 11 preterm infants.

Ogletree began donating in 2010 after her first son, Kyle, was born and she noticed she was producing an unusually large amount of milk.

She continued donating after the births of her other sons, Kage and Kory, and as a surrogate mother.

Her dedication, supported by a strict pumping schedule, healthy diet, and hydration, highlights her commitment to helping others despite not having a medical condition to explain her overproduction.

She’s also donated to Tiny Treasures Milk Bank and friends, with an estimated total of over 126,000 ounces.

Her story inspires many to consider breast milk donation as a way to support fragile infants.

07/15/2025

Labor is a messy experience!
As your body brings forth your little one, from bloody show to your water breaking, there’s constantly something leaking out! Hospitals have you sit half naked under the gown on puppy pads- but anytime you stand up or shift positions a bit more spreads.
A less dribbly, (and more private!) option is wearing pads or incontinence underwear during labor.
Heres a chance to grab some supplies for your birth for free.



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This month, one incredible first time mom I worked with gave birth to her 10 lb, 22+inch baby without an epidural, and w...
06/23/2025

This month, one incredible first time mom I worked with gave birth to her 10 lb, 22+inch baby without an epidural, and without needing a single stitch in repair. Amazing!
She had declined her late term ultrasound for size estimates. No one was expecting an especially big baby, and thus no doubts were in her mind, or that of her caregivers as she labored as to whether or not she would be successful. (Which is why she declined!)
Did you know that 1 in 3 moms in the US are told their baby is going to be “big”? However, when the babies are born, only 1 in 10 actually meet that definition. This overestimation of fetal size causes changes in the way your labor and births are handled, sometimes causing more interventions and problems than they solve. (And leading to many misearble inductions or csections that may not have been needed!)
As I watched this new mom hold her sweet chunky baby after her beautiful birth done her way, I couldnt help but think things would have been different if the growth scan had been done and her big baby diagnosed. Would she have been allowed to go into labor on her own at 41+3 weeks, and labor in the birth pool with minimal intervention? Perhaps.
I’m so proud of her for her commitment to educating herself and advocating for what was important to her for her best possible birth.
(Note: I did not/do not suggest skipping any recommended prenatal care/screening. This mom did her own research and made her own empowered choices)

Our bodies are incredible!  Dont ever let someone tell you “you can’t” do something big AND be a great mother.  Diligenc...
06/03/2025

Our bodies are incredible! Dont ever let someone tell you “you can’t” do something big AND be a great mother. Diligence and hard work pay off in whatever arena of life they are applied.

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BREAKING: What does it take to win an ultramarathon? For Stephanie Case, it meant covering 100 kilometers over brutal terrain while stopping three times to breastfeed her 6-month-old daughter.

Yes, you read that right.

At the Ultra-Trail Snowdonia in Wales, Case wasn’t aiming for a podium. After a three-year break from competition, she just wanted to feel like an athlete again. Instead, she crossed the finish line as the first female finisher, clocking 16 hours and 53 minutes on a course with over 6,500 meters of elevation gain.

Her journey to this race wasn’t just physical it was deeply emotional.

After two miscarriages and the birth of her daughter Pepper through IVF, Case wasn’t sure if she could ever call herself an athlete again. She had questions. Doubts. Fears. But she kept moving forward. She began running again in her second trimester and carefully trained to maintain her milk supply while preparing for this demanding race.

Throughout the course, her partner met her at 20K, 50K, and 80K checkpoints so she could breastfeed Pepper a logistical challenge that required special permissions and a lot of heart.

Stephanie Case’s story is one of resilience, strength, and rewriting what motherhood and athleticism can look like.

Her next goal? To return to the Hardrock 100 the same race that once felt like the end of a chapter. Now, it marks the beginning of a bold new one.

With two of my June moms coming early, the past two weeks have been busy with four new births attended!  Each birth impr...
05/31/2025

With two of my June moms coming early, the past two weeks have been busy with four new births attended! Each birth impressed upon me again the importance of focusing just on making the next right choice.
As we make our “Birth plans”. We are educating ourselves on all the options, and making a conscious effort to select those options that we want as a part of our journey, and those we would prefer to avoid if not necessary. This is an important process that empowers us to reach for our best birth!
However, each birth has its own realities we can’t always control. Intervention we may not have initially chosen may become a helpful, necessary, or even lifesaving choice.
An induction, or prodromal labor that lasts days is very different than a spontaneous labor in your body’s ability to endure. Accepting an epidural DOES NOT mean you failed if you initially planned on unmedicated.
Internal monitors that help doctors manage your progress safely can help determine when a stall in labor means we just need more time, or when a csection will help save lives.
Pitocin, or having the doctor break your water can relieve suffering by quickly helping your body progress.
The key is, seek information and understanding for all your options as you labor. Then make the next right choice for the situation and labor you are experiencing. Make your birth plan more of a guideline than a rigid map you may regret stepping off of. This helps you feel empowered and peace filled both as you labor, and as you look back on the birth of your beautiful child.

Happy Mothers Day!  To those with little ones gathered around you, those feeling those little bumps and kicks. And those...
05/11/2025

Happy Mothers Day!
To those with little ones gathered around you, those feeling those little bumps and kicks. And those with mother-hearts waiting and hoping for the day. Birth mothers, adoptive mothers, and foster moms who show that love, and families come in so many, many ways. You are ALL so beautiful, and so amazing just the way you are.

When are you DUE?Every expectant mom gets that question over and over- as if she were a library book with a fixed date h...
04/28/2025

When are you DUE?
Every expectant mom gets that question over and over- as if she were a library book with a fixed date her baby will have to return the borrowed space by.
But let’s talk about due dates.
When figured by the first day of your last menstrual cycle, it has you count back three months, and add 7 days (plus change the year!)
So if your first day of your last period was Sept 1st 2024, you due date would be June 8th, 2025.
The problem with this is: It assumes every woman has a 28 day menstrual cycle, and ovulates on day 14, immediately getting pregnant. (This is a wild assumption!)
If you have a very early ultrasound, (7-10 weeks) these can be more accurate in assigning a “due date” because cell growth and development are more uniform, with less variation based on genetics, diabetes, etc.
But what does your due date actually mean?
Only 5% of mothers actually deliver on their due date-so it isn’t like when your school paper is due!
50% of first time moms are still pregnant five days after their due date, with the percentage jumping up to 75% just three days later. However there are outliers to this. In the days before routine inductions, my mother delivered her first baby at 43 weeks. (Of her 6 children, I was the “earliest“ at 41+1).
On the other end of the spectrum, 1 in 10 women give birth to their babies prematurely (before 37 weeks gestation). Just last week, one of my clients brought her 35+ week baby girl into the world weighing in just about 5 lbs. (baby was fine, and only needed a night or two in the NICU to stabilize her blood sugars)
So mathmatically-the other 40% of first time babies come between 37 weeks and 40+4 days.
What does this all mean? Generally, you should:
1) Circle a “due month” rather than a due date.
2) Pack that hospital bag around 36 weeks, just in case
3) Don’t stress if you are still pregnant past your due date- trust your body to bring your baby when he/she is ready! Your baby’s lung maturity sends your body the signals to prepare for birth. Every woman gestates and labors differently, so there is no use comparing.
4)Do those fetal kick counts every day! They help you know if baby is well, and you can continue to patiently wait for your big day.

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