04/22/2026
I used to get so hung up on the āstages of playāāwondering if a child should be doing this or shouldāve already moved on from that.
But hereās what Iāve learned: play isnāt a checklist. Itās communication. Itās regulation. Itās connection.
Whether itās lining things up, repeating the same game, exploring objects, or engaging with othersāthereās meaning in all of it.
When we stop trying to rush play into looking a certain way, we make space for growth to happen naturally.
All play is okay. And all play tells us something important. āØ