08/30/2022
Hello Hair Honey’s,
It’s been a long time since I last posted anywhere. I needed to take a break from social media and reassess my life. I suffered severe injuries due to an accident. These injuries are not the kind of injuries which just healed up and you go back to living your life as usual. No! I am lucky to be alive and I want to share some what I experienced in the hope that it will help someone else.
1. Physical Injury - It doesn’t matter how advanced science is today. When you’re physically broken, and doctors do there best to put back together; know that your body will never be the same or the way God in Heaven made you!!! Please take care of yourselves and never disregard the blessings you have in your healthy body because it can be taken away from you at ANY moment.
2. Mental Injury (AKA) Depression - Depression hides in the crevices of your mind, you can’t identify it. If you feel tired and sleeping all the time, but you’re not rested, you can’t gather your thoughts into one place a keep them there, and you constantly forget what you were just saying; you might be suffering from depression. Depression comes in many forms and different stages. SEE A DOCTOR!!! Don’t be ashame of what you are going through. This world is evil and it’s next to impossible for you not to be going through something. If you need a medication, take it! You shouldn’t care how you get your balance back as long as you get it back!
3. Relationships - This is the last subject I want to speak on. People are either for you or against you. There is no in between or grey area. I let go of a lot of people and a lot of people walked away from me and to them I want to say THANK YOU!!! I’ve heard stories about how people were betrayed by the ones they loved the most, knowing exactly how it feels from experience, however I thought that those day were over for me, WHATEVER! My church mother betrayed me and had no problem doing it; at a time when I was most in need. All of the people that are gone were relationships that were double digits in years, so it wasn’t like I’d just met these people. I knew them well, or maybe not?!?! When you are in the state of needing people you will learn who’s who. I’m very talented and blessed with many skills. When you make the decision not to give your time away; the people that have been using you will go off on you like “I’ll dare you not allow me to use you anymore!” I don’t blame them for this, I blame myself. Once you start removing the clutter of people who only want what they can get from you calling it friendship; it becomes easy to identify them and swipe them right out the door. Don’t give yourself to anyone who’s not equally concerned with your well being too. Spend more time on self correction than on correcting others. Don’t give what costed you thousands away for pennies. Respect yourself and you won’t make the mistakes I did. Last but not least, stop using the word FRIEND so loosely!!! And remember not everyone that comes into you life is meant to stay!
I will be posting new products soon and sharing fun stories about HEC Studios. I have an important new trademark and finally found an amazing company to make all of the custom wigs and hair topper for my company. I will be introducing lines from new companies as well.
Get ready to have some fun. Thank all of you for staying with me through my ordeal and know that the worst is over. If you’re new, like a follow my page. God bless you all!🙏🏾❤️🔥🩸
Much luv,
Amanda Ji.
