11/12/2025
If you catch yourself obsessing over any of these, it’s time to talk…
⚖️ What the scale said this morning
Your weight fluctuates everyday depending on your hormones, sleep, stress, salt intake, & bowel movements. It has nothing to do with your value as a human, it’s just data. So let’s treat it as such, okay?
⌚️ How many calories your watch says you burned in a workout
That number is based off heart rate and doesn’t give you the full picture. Sure it’s cool to see but lifting heavy with intention will do way more for fat loss than running for the same amount of time no matter what your watch says.
👖 Fitting into your high school jeans
Girl… you are a grown ass woman. It’s time to buy some new jeans and stop trying to squeeze into a smaller version of you.
🥗 What diet or fitness plan your favorite influencer is promoting
Your needs, goals, current fitness status, & stress levels are different than hers. It might work for her but that doesn’t automatically mean it will work for you.
⏰ How fast you can lose weight
Your body isn’t Amazon Prime. Real change takes time, structure, and patience. The faster it comes off, the faster it’s going to come back on. It’s worth it to do it the right way and actually keep your results.
So what does actually matter?
* Tracking macros (at least for a short amount of time) so you can understand what correct portion sizes look like for you
* Following a structured strength training plan instead of doing random workouts
* Getting 7-8 hrs of sleep and finding ways to manage your stress… aka self-care 💁🏼♀️
* Fueling your body regularly instead of restricting all day and then craving everything at night
* Daily walks + movement outside the gym
* Managing your mindset and how you talk to yourself
* Having a plan that you can actually stick to
Let’s end the dieting spiral and get you on a system that’s actually built for YOU.
Comment “SYSTEM” below if you’re ready for a change 💪🏼