03/05/2023
I love stories, especially when told by strangers. Where one sentence can open this fleeting window of familiarity.
A few weeks ago, a question about a sandwich led to a run down of how to a condition I can’t remember the name of, started a journey of eliminating foods that create inflammation in the body. When he shared that his last colonoscopy showed great improvement, I too was caught up in the joy and triumph of this happy ending.
Yesterday, as I looked for somewhere to sit in a crowded coffee shop, I gave up and accepted that there wasn’t one,when the owner cleared off the back of counter, an area usually reserved for staff, for me to sit. A casual comment about how the energy of the place completely changed after all the people filtered out, led to story of how that shop came to be 6 years ago.
A plan to open a dispensary that got derailed, and the idea of opening a coffee shop in jest that quickly turned into a reality. A story of a $10,000 rental credit and faking it until you make it, of creating a space that seemed to be a pretty close reflection of himself.
I had expected my flat white to be mediocre since it was in a paper cup. It wasn’t, it was some of the best coffee I’ve had recently, and to hear that he is aiming for even more refinement for a coffee that was already pretty awesome was inspiring.
A story that was so easily told without ego that made me contemplate how can I do or create something that is a true reflection of who I am.
And I feel there is so much more to this story. His girlfriend or wife came in mid-conversation, they had such an easy intimacy with each other that I felt that I should look away and turn back to my book. It made me so curious to hear that story. The story of them meeting, of going through this experience together, of a shared life. I think that we often draw to us the thing that balances, reflects, or supports us. It made me curious to find out more.
But that’s the thing with these sorts of stories. You usually only hear a small snippet and are left to wonder about what came before or after.