04/20/2026
Today is Bela’s birthday. Edie and Bela had a deep and meaningful love, which even trauma and endless challenges could not undo.
Bela was a loved accountant in El Paso, and was known to create lasting relationships with his clients. He had a huge stutter, and would take a run up to start any conversation. But all of those who knew him best knew to wait patiently until he got the words out. Bela loved jokes and was always a total joy to be around.
He loved going to Juarez and buying papaya which we ate every morning with lime.
This loving and gentle man was born on the same day as Hi**er. It turns out we all choose who to be in this lifetime. Bela had much anger inside him for all that was taken and those he lost, but he turned to the light, becoming a force for love and unity in El Paso. He was known to have faithful clients who were Mexican, Arab and Jewish.
We miss you Bela and wish you a happy birthday ❤️
Team Edie