Kathryn de Bruin Family Therapy and Training

Kathryn de Bruin Family Therapy and Training Emotionally Focused Therapy and Training; bringing abundance and renewal in relationships and in lif Schedule an appointment today: therapy@kathryndebruin.com

We are a community of Mental Health Professionals located in Mission Valley. Kathryn de Bruin Therapy & Training specializes in Couples Therapy utilizing proven Emotionally Focused Therapy, as well as Play Therapy for the family unit.

When children can’t find the words for what they feel, art gives them another language.Drawing helps kids process emotio...
11/14/2025

When children can’t find the words for what they feel, art gives them another language.

Drawing helps kids process emotions safely — turning invisible feelings into something they can see, touch, and begin to understand.

Here are a few ways to guide that process at home:
Create a safe space.
Offer paper, crayons, paints — and no judgment. Let your child know there’s no “right” or “wrong” way to draw.

Follow their lead.
Resist the urge to interpret or correct. Simply notice: “I see lots of dark colors today,” or “That’s a big storm cloud.” This shows curiosity without pressure.

Name emotions gently.
If your child is ready, help them link pictures to feelings: “It looks like your picture feels angry,” or “Maybe that’s a bit of worry?”

Use drawing for stories.
Ask open questions like, “What happens next?” or “Who helps the character in your picture?” Storytelling helps kids find agency in tough emotions.

Keep it regular, not reactive.
Encourage drawing as part of daily life, not only when emotions are high. It becomes a familiar, healthy outlet.

Through creative play and drawing, children learn that feelings can be expressed, understood, and transformed — and that they’re never too big to be held.

Self-care is a vital part of emotional health. Schedule moments of rest, reflection, or joy—it makes you stronger for th...
11/13/2025

Self-care is a vital part of emotional health. Schedule moments of rest, reflection, or joy—it makes you stronger for those around you.

Theres not been a day in the past 4 months of living here, that’s I havent thought these mountains….. how incredible. It...
11/08/2025

Theres not been a day in the past 4 months of living here, that’s I havent thought these mountains….. how incredible. It’s different each day
Utah!

Children don’t always have the words to describe what’s happening inside them — but they do have play.Through play thera...
11/07/2025

Children don’t always have the words to describe what’s happening inside them — but they do have play.

Through play therapy, children use toys, art, and storytelling to express what they feel, explore challenges, and discover new ways of coping.

In a safe and supportive space, play becomes their language, and healing becomes possible.

It helps with:
✨ Emotional regulation and resilience
✨ Managing anxiety or big life changes
✨ Building confidence and healthy relationships
✨ Processing trauma or loss in a gentle, age-appropriate way

As a certified play and family therapist, I help children and parents connect more deeply — because when a child feels seen and understood, everything changes.

Most couples get caught in repeating cycles of conflict without realizing it. Emotionally Focused Therapy gives tools to...
11/05/2025

Most couples get caught in repeating cycles of conflict without realizing it. Emotionally Focused Therapy gives tools to recognize those patterns, change them, and build healthier communication.

If you’re in Utah and looking for support, I’m now offering Play Therapy and Family Therapy in the area. Play Therapy he...
11/03/2025

If you’re in Utah and looking for support, I’m now offering Play Therapy and Family Therapy in the area. Play Therapy helps children express emotions through play, while Family Therapy gives families tools to reconnect and thrive.

Halloween excitement is fun—but some kids feel scared. Prepare in advance, talk through fears, and reassure them afterwa...
10/31/2025

Halloween excitement is fun—but some kids feel scared.

Prepare in advance, talk through fears, and reassure them afterward.

End-of-month reflection is a powerful tool. Take a few minutes to note your wins, challenges, and lessons learned.      ...
10/30/2025

End-of-month reflection is a powerful tool. Take a few minutes to note your wins, challenges, and lessons learned.

Feeling anxious? Use the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique to bring focus back to the present moment.5 – Sight (See)Look aro...
10/29/2025

Feeling anxious? Use the 5-4-3-2-1 grounding technique to bring focus back to the present moment.

5 – Sight (See)Look around and identify 5 things you can see
Examples: a lamp, a tree, a pen, a book, a cloud
Encourage noticing colors, shapes, and details

4 – Touch (Feel)Notice 4 things you can feel
Examples: your feet on the floor, the texture of your clothes, your hair, the chair you’re sitting on
Encourage paying attention to sensations like temperature, texture, or pressure

3 – Hearing (Listen)Identify 3 sounds
Examples: birds chirping, traffic, a clock ticking
Focus on distinct sounds, even subtle ones

2 – Smell (Smell)Notice 2 things you can smell
Examples: coffee, fresh air, a scented candle, soap
If smells aren’t present, imagine or recall familiar scents

1 – Taste (Taste)Focus on 1 thing you can taste
Examples: sip water, chewing gum, tasting a piece of chocolate
Encourage savoring the taste fully

Use November to prioritize your mental health. Small daily rituals improve resilience and family relationships.
10/28/2025

Use November to prioritize your mental health. Small daily rituals improve resilience and family relationships.

Supporting children in expressing emotions prevents bigger challenges later. Observe, listen, and give them tools to com...
10/27/2025

Supporting children in expressing emotions prevents bigger challenges later.

Observe, listen, and give them tools to communicate safely.

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