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We have LMFTs here to better your headspace
and strengthen your relationships. We strive to provide you with the tools you need to succeed.

The Relationship Place is a safe space where you can find support and empathy in marriage and family counseling. Our aim is to break the stereotype of what therapy should be and what your relationship should look like. Located in the vibrant neighborhood of Hillcrest, we invite you to choose from our diverse and non-judgmental group of licensed therapists. If you are ready to start your journey to better mental health and stronger relationships, contact us today! Disclaimer → The advice provided in social media posts and content is intended for general informational purposes only and should not be considered a substitute for professional therapy or counseling. While the information shared may be helpful, it is important to understand that every individual's situation is unique, and the guidance provided may not be suitable for everyone. If you are experiencing mental health issues or require therapeutic assistance, it is strongly recommended that you seek the support of a qualified mental health professional or therapist. They can provide personalized care and guidance tailored to your specific needs. Reliance on any advice or information obtained through social media platforms is solely at your own risk.

03/25/2026

𝗦𝗮𝘆 𝗵𝗲𝗹𝗹𝗼 𝘁𝗼 one of our wonderful therapists here at The Relationship Place- 𝗔𝗹𝗲𝘅𝗮𝗻𝗱𝗿𝗮 𝗦𝗮𝗹𝗼𝗻𝗲.

Alexandra works with individuals, couples, and families who are standing at one of life’s crossroads. Whether you’re navigating the beautiful chaos of new parenthood, feeling the weight of workplace burnout, or sensing that something in your relationship just isn’t clicking the way it used to- she’s here for all of it.

What makes Alexandra’s approach so special is the care she brings to the 𝘸𝘩𝘰𝘭𝘦 person. She holds space for how race, sexual orientation, socioeconomic background, and lived experience shape your story, because your identity isn’t something to work around, it’s something to honor. Her work is culturally humble, trauma-informed, and rooted in real, evidence-based tools that actually help you move forward.

If you’ve been waiting for a therapist who truly 𝗴𝗲𝘁𝘀 it… the complexity, the nuance, the fullness of who you are- Alexandra might just be your person.

Reach out whenever you’re ready. We’ll be here.

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03/24/2026

𝗔 𝗳𝗲𝘄 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝘄𝗲 𝘄𝗶𝘀𝗵 𝗺𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝗺𝗲𝗻 𝗸𝗻𝗲𝘄.

Our very own works with men every day on the quieter skills, the ones that don’t make headlines but make relationships actually work.Here are three Mindful Masculinity tips from Jeffrey- for better living and better loving…

𝗟𝗲𝗮𝗱 𝘄𝗶𝘁𝗵 𝗰𝗹𝗮𝗿𝗶𝘁𝘆, 𝗻𝗼𝘁 𝘂𝗿𝗴𝗲𝗻𝗰𝘆. Before you speak, check in with yourself. 𝘞𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘰 𝘐 𝘢𝘤𝘵𝘶𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘺 𝘯𝘦𝘦𝘥 𝘳𝘪𝘨𝘩𝘵 𝘯𝘰𝘸? That pause is where reactivity stops and real connection starts.

𝗢𝗳𝗳𝗲𝗿 𝘀𝗺𝗮𝗹𝗹 𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗮𝗶𝗿𝘀 𝗯𝗲𝗳𝗼𝗿𝗲 𝘁𝗵𝗶𝗻𝗴𝘀 𝗲𝘀𝗰𝗮𝗹𝗮𝘁𝗲. 𝘐 𝘥𝘪𝘥𝘯’𝘁 𝘮𝘦𝘢𝘯 𝘵𝘰 𝘴𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘥 𝘴𝘩𝘢𝘳𝘱. 𝘓𝘦𝘵 𝘮𝘦 𝘵𝘳𝘺 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘢𝘨𝘢𝘪𝘯. Six words. That’s it. Small course corrections keep small moments from becoming big ruptures.

𝗕𝗲 𝗽𝗿𝗲𝘀𝗲𝗻𝘁 𝗼𝗻 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲. Pick one thing today: phone down at dinner, actually listening instead of waiting to talk. Presence is how you show someone they matter, without saying a word.

Which one did you need to hear today? 👇

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03/04/2026

Have you grabbed your ticket for the book swap yet?

We’re getting everything ready for today March 3rd from 6-8pm, and we’d love to see you there.

It’s the perfect low-pressure evening to clear off your shelves, find your next favorite read, and connect with the community.

Just a reminder of how it works:
1. Bring at least one book (or a whole stack!).
2. Check in and lay them out.
3. Browse and chat.
4. Take home up to four “new to you” books.
The Details:
* When: Tuesday, Mar 3 | 6 pm – 8 pm
* Tickets: $5 (Link in bio to snag yours)

Whether you’re coming solo or bringing a friend, we can’t wait to host you. See you there!

03/03/2026

What if you could accomplish six months of therapy in just one weekend? 🏝️

Life is busy. Between the kids, the laundry, and the never-ending to-do list, your relationship often gets pushed to the back burner. That’s why we created the Therapy Getaway Intensives

Imagine having the space to truly focus on your partner without distractions. Using the Gottman Method, we dive deep into repair and reconnection, giving you the tools for long-term satisfaction- not just a temporary fix.

It’s an investment in your future, condensed into a weekend that could change everything.

Ready to recharge your love? Visit the link in our bio to learn more about our upcoming Intensives.

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02/27/2026

We are so excited to host the San Diego Book Swap Society at The Relationship Place on Tuesday, March 3rd.

If you’re looking to refresh your bookshelves and connect with fellow readers in our community, we’d love to have you. Here is how it works:

Bring at least one book to participate (feel free to bring more!).

Check in with our host and lay your books out on the designated tables.

Browse the collection and find something new to dive into.

Take home up to four new-to-you books.

Details:

When: Tuesday, March 3 | 6:00 PM – 8:00 PM

Where: The Relationship Place (2729 Fourth Ave Ste 2)

Tickets: $5 (Link in bio to grab yours!)

We can’t wait to see what you’re reading!

02/26/2026

We are so excited to partner with to host a Book Swap right here at The Relationship Place.

Whether you’re looking to clear your shelves or find a new perspective through a great read, this evening is all about community, conversation, and the love of books.

Books have a beautiful way of helping us understand ourselves and our relationships better. Come meet some new faces, and swap a story!

The Details:
🗓 When: Tuesday, March 3rd
⏰ Time: 6:00 PM - 8:00 PM
📍 Where: The Relationship Place | 2729 Fourth Ave Ste 2, San Diego
🎟 Tickets: $5 (Link in bio to grab yours via Eventbrite!)

We can’t wait to see what titles you bring! Which book has had the biggest impact on your life lately? Let us know in the comments! 👇

02/26/2026

It’s our birthday!
Today we celebrate seven years of serving individuals and couples in San Diego and beyond

Seven years of brave conversations. Seven years of repair and reconnection. Seven years of growth that does not happen by accident, but through courage and commitment. We are deeply grateful for the trust you have placed in us.

02/25/2026

𝐌𝐞𝐧’𝐬 𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐚𝐥 𝐡𝐞𝐚𝐥𝐭𝐡 𝐢𝐬 𝐨𝐟𝐭𝐞𝐧 𝐬𝐮𝐟𝐟𝐞𝐫𝐞𝐝 𝐢𝐧 𝐬𝐢𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐜𝐞.
Many men carry the immense pressure to be strong, steady, and capable- without ever being taught how to process the stress, emotion, or uncertainty that comes with it.
The result isn’t weakness. It’s burnout, isolation, and feeling disconnected from yourself and the people you care about most.

𝐓𝐡𝐫𝐢𝐯𝐞𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬, our men’s group at The Relationship Place, is designed and led by clinician Jeffrey Young for men who want “small group, big change.” This isn’t a space for posturing; it’s a space for intention, integrity, and real support. 🤝

Here are three ways to tap into mindful masculinity:
1️⃣ 𝐋𝐞𝐚𝐝 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐯𝐚𝐥𝐮𝐞𝐬 — 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐣𝐮𝐬𝐭 𝐠𝐨𝐚𝐥𝐬. Goals change and motivation fades. Your values are the anchors that keep you grounded when life gets hard.
2️⃣ 𝐀𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐜𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐝𝐚𝐫 𝐰𝐢𝐭𝐡 𝐰𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐦𝐚𝐭𝐭𝐞𝐫𝐬. Your time tells the truth. Make protected space for growth, connection, and rest—not just the demands you’re reacting to.
3️⃣ 𝐌𝐞𝐚𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐮𝐜𝐜𝐞𝐬𝐬 𝐛𝐲 𝐚𝐥𝐢𝐠𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭. Ask yourself: Did my actions reflect who I want to be this week? Consistency builds self-trust—and self-trust changes everything.

𝐘𝐨𝐮 𝐝𝐨𝐧’𝐭 𝐡𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐝𝐨 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐚𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐞.

Curious if Thriveways is the right fit? We offer a free 15-minute consultation to answer your questions and help you decide if this group is the support you’ve been looking for. Click the link in our bio to get started. 🔗

02/23/2026

🤝 𝐖𝐞 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐚𝐥𝐥 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞 𝐟𝐨𝐫 𝐲𝐨𝐮

At The Relationship Place, our doors and our hearts are open.
We’re a team of open-minded, inclusive clinicians who believe that everyone deserves a safe place to heal. No matter your race, sexual orientation, or relationship structure- 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐛𝐞𝐥𝐨𝐧𝐠 𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐞. 🏳️‍🌈🩷💜💙♾️

𝐖𝐡𝐲 𝐫𝐞𝐥𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬𝐡𝐢𝐩 𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐩𝐲? As Dr. Dana shares in this clip, some of the deepest pressure and shame we carry lives inside our relationships. Working with a specialist allows us to heal the “𝐬𝐩𝐚𝐜𝐞 𝐛𝐞𝐭𝐰𝐞𝐞𝐧.” While individual therapy is vital, relationship therapy gives you the tools to communicate and connect in real-time.

Whatever your “normal” looks like, we’re here to help you make it healthy, vibrant, and truly yours.

Ready to find your path forward? We’re here when you’re ready.

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02/20/2026

𝐖𝐡𝐞𝐧 “𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐰𝐞 𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐲 𝐨𝐫 𝐠𝐨?” 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥𝐬 𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐬𝐢𝐛𝐥𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐚𝐧𝐬𝐰𝐞𝐫.
𝐃𝐢𝐬𝐜𝐞𝐫𝐧𝐦𝐞𝐧𝐭 𝐂𝐨𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐥𝐢𝐧𝐠 is not traditional couples therapy. It is a specialized, short-term process designed for when you are at a high-stakes crossroads.

This approach is often helpful when couples are mixed-agenda; meaning one partner is leaning out, and the other is leaning in.

At The Relationship Place, we use this structured approach (usually 1–5 sessions) to help couples who are “mixed-agenda”… meaning one is leaning out, and one is leaning in.

This process helps you:
* 𝐒𝐥𝐨𝐰 𝐝𝐨𝐰𝐧 the emotional overwhelm.
* 𝐔𝐧𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐬𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐝 the dynamics that led to this point.
* 𝐃𝐞𝐜𝐢𝐝𝐞 between three clear paths: the status quo, separation/divorce, or a 6-month commitment to therapy.

The goal isn’t an immediate “fix.” The goal is 𝐂𝐋𝐀𝐑𝐈𝐓𝐘.

Whether you choose to recommit or decide to part ways, Discernment Counseling ensures that the decision is made with a clear head and a calm heart, rather than in a moment of crisis.

Have you ever wished you could just “pause” the pressure to figure out where you truly stand?

02/13/2026

𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬 𝐕𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞’𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐟𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐤𝐞 𝐚 𝐜𝐡𝐞𝐜𝐤𝐥𝐢𝐬𝐭 𝐨𝐟 𝐡𝐢𝐠𝐡 𝐞𝐱𝐩𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐚𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬? ❤️

The truth is, a date doesn’t have to be fancy to be romantic. Relationship research shows that closeness isn’t built by the price tag, it’s built by the “𝐞𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐚𝐥 𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐭” of a shared new experience. When you explore something new together, your brains release dopamine, turning a simple moment into a lasting positive memory.

𝐕𝐚𝐥𝐞𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐧𝐞’𝐬 𝐃𝐚𝐲 𝐃𝐨𝐞𝐬𝐧’𝐭 𝐇𝐚𝐯𝐞 𝐭𝐨 𝐁𝐞 𝐅𝐚𝐧𝐜𝐲 𝐭𝐨 𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥 𝐑𝐨𝐦𝐚𝐧𝐭𝐢𝐜, skip the pressure and try one of these connection-building dates:
✨ 𝐁𝐚𝐥𝐛𝐨𝐚 𝐏𝐚𝐫𝐤 (February is Half-Price Museum Month!) + the remodeled 𝐁𝐨𝐭𝐚𝐧𝐢𝐜𝐚𝐥 𝐁𝐮𝐢𝐥𝐝𝐢𝐧𝐠
✨ 𝐍𝐀𝐓 𝐚𝐭 𝐍𝐢𝐠𝐡𝐭on Fridays at the 𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐚𝐥 𝐇𝐢𝐬𝐭𝐨𝐫𝐲 𝐌𝐮𝐬𝐞𝐮𝐦
✨ 𝐒𝐮𝐧𝐬𝐞𝐭 𝐂𝐥𝐢𝐟𝐟𝐬 walk or a new coastal trail
✨ 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐄𝐦𝐛𝐚𝐫𝐜𝐚𝐝𝐞𝐫𝐨:Saturday fish market for 𝐃𝐈𝐘 𝐟𝐢𝐬𝐡 𝐭𝐚𝐜𝐨𝐬 + a walk past the 𝐒𝐭𝐚𝐫 𝐨𝐟 𝐈𝐧𝐝𝐢𝐚 ✨ 𝐅𝐫𝐞𝐞 𝐲𝐨𝐠𝐚 at 𝐓𝐡𝐞 𝐑𝐚𝐝𝐲 𝐒𝐡𝐞𝐥𝐥
✨ A “𝐦𝐨𝐯𝐢𝐞 𝐭𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐬𝐡𝐚𝐩𝐞𝐝 𝐲𝐨𝐮” night (with popcorn + Hot Tamales—trust me)

The best dates aren’t about getting it “right”, they’re about 𝐛𝐞𝐢𝐧𝐠 𝐜𝐮𝐫𝐢𝐨𝐮𝐬 and letting 𝐜𝐨𝐧𝐧𝐞𝐜𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧 grow naturally.

📖 𝐖𝐚𝐧𝐭 𝐦𝐨𝐫𝐞 𝐬𝐢𝐦𝐩𝐥𝐞 𝐰𝐚𝐲𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐬𝐭𝐫𝐞𝐧𝐠𝐭𝐡𝐞𝐧 𝐲𝐨𝐮𝐫 𝐛𝐨𝐧𝐝? Read our latest blog post. 𝐋𝐢𝐧𝐤 𝐢𝐧 𝐛𝐢𝐨!

02/12/2026

The Face Behind the Friendly Voice 📞✨

Meet Pamela, our Client Ambassador and likely the first person you’ll speak with when you reach out to The Relationship Place.
Pamela is so much more than a staff member- she is the heart of our intake process. She understands that the first call is often the hardest, which is why she meets every inquiry with genuine compassion and a mission to find you the perfect therapeutic match.
Whether you’re joining us as an individual or with a partner, Pamela ensures you feel heard and supported from your very first hello. In her own words: “We care a great deal and will not hesitate to take that extra step so that you can feel confident that you are in good hands.”
Now that you know the face of the friendly voice on the other side of the phone, we’d love to help you get started.

Contact us today to find the right therapist for your journey. 🤍 . .

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