02/20/2026
Thank you for this new title. 😂
Yes, I am just deciding that I’m given how 99% of my clothing is black.
Thanks to more people are getting interested in backdoor play, which is amazing, but tv shows can make it seem far easier than it is in real life. So here are a few tips, before you try more than just the tip 😉
Use loob. The 🍑 isn’t like the 🐱. It doesn’t self lubricate. It will help things go a lot more smoothly. Literally. Don’t be stingy and reapply often. The wetter the better.
Start small. Try inserting 1 finger. Then try 2. Consider playing around with a small plug (DM me for my faves) make sure whatever you use has a flared base. You don’t want to end up in the ER having to get something removed that got stuck up there. 😳
Practice slow, deep breathing. It sounds so basic, but it can help relax your nervous system and your pelvic floor. Which can help make insertion easier.
Communication is key. Talk with your partner ahead of time and continue to check it throughout.
Like with anything this activity shouldn’t be painful, but if you are one of the many people who do experience pain, help is here! And you don’t need to go to Gotham to get relief. I offer virtual visits, so you can chat from the comfort of your own bat cave!
In the meantime, check out the post through Her campus and play safe.
This is not medical advice, this is for educational purposes only.
