Jay Reid Psychotherapy

Jay Reid Psychotherapy Welcome to my page. I am a Licensed Professional Clinical Counselor (LPCC #4195). My license is under my formal name Jack James Reid.
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03/15/2026

Live in defiance of the narcissistic parent’s rules

03/14/2026

Moving away from people like your narcissistic parent

03/12/2026

Make sense of what happened to know it truly wasn’t your fault

03/10/2026

How to escape the theatre of your narcissistic parent’s disturbed mind

If something goes wrong at work, in a relationship, even in a small everyday interaction do you immediately assume it mu...
03/09/2026

If something goes wrong at work, in a relationship, even in a small everyday interaction do you immediately assume it must be your fault?

That reflex didn’t come from nowhere.

If you grew up as the scapegoat child of a narcissistic parent, self-blame became a survival strategy.

Your nervous system learned that if you could locate the problem in yourself, maybe you could fix it and stay safe.

In this video, I explain:

• Why self-blame feels automatic
• How narcissistic families train a child to take on the “badness”
• Why it doesn’t feel like a belief, it feels like reality
• And how to begin loosening the scapegoat spell

If you constantly feel like you’re the common denominator in everything that goes wrong, this will likely hit home.

Do you catch yourself apologizing for things that aren't even your fault? Let me know below. 💬

Full video in the top comment! 👇

03/08/2026

The difference between suspending disbelief in the movies vs in the narcissistic family

03/07/2026

If you grew up as a scapegoat child to a narcissistic parent then you faced undeserved devaluation, deprivation and domineering from them

03/05/2026

Trying to Think Their Way Into Feeling Safe

03/04/2026

Forcing Themselves to Be More Vulnerable Than They Feel Safe To Be

03/03/2026

Opening Up to People Who Can’t Understand Narcissistic Abuse

03/01/2026

What is vulnerability?

02/28/2026

Vulnerability doesn’t feel like a doorway to connection

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