Heather Atles Relationship, Sex, & Intimacy Coaching

03/14/2026

The Connection Lab is today at 3pm! It's a guided social experience for singles to move beyond small talk and practice real connection.

Use code CONNECTION for $10 off

The Connection Lab: A Guided Connection Experience for Singles (San Francisco)

03/14/2026

Tomorrow! Saturday, 3/14 at 3pm,
A few spots still available.

Most people want deeper connection.

They just don’t want to feel awkward getting there.

Dating apps can feel performative.
Mixers can feel overwhelming.
And small talk rarely leads anywhere meaningful.

That’s why I created The Connection Lab.

It’s a guided social experience for singles where you can meet new people and practice connection in a way that’s structured, consent-based, and surprisingly easeful.

No pickup lines.
No pressure.
Just simple guided experiences that help people actually connect.

📍 New Mission Yoga
📅 March 14
⏰ 3–4:30pm

Bring a friend (there’s a 2-for-1 option) or come solo.

Link in bio.

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03/03/2026

If you’re single in the San Francisco Bay and tired of performative dating…
This is your invitation to try something different.
The Connection Lab is a guided, consent-forward space to practice real connection — without small talk BS or dating pressure.
It’s structured.�It’s grounded.�You’re always in choice.
March 14 · 3–4:30pm · New Mission Yoga
Don’t miss the chance to practice something different.
DM me “LAB” and I’ll send you the details (and a $10 off code!)
or check the link.in bio

03/01/2026

If you’re single in the Bay Area and craving something deeper than a typical mixer…

This is your invitation.

The Connection Lab is structured, facilitated, and rooted in consent — so you’re never left awkwardly floating.

Bring a friend.
Come solo.
Just come as you are.

March 14 · New Mission Yoga
DM me “Lab” and I’ll send the link.

02/02/2026

🔥 LOVE BURN MIAMI | FRIDAY @ 12PM | Butt Disco Camp 🔥
A real, connected experience at
Ready for more than small talk?

Tired of “So… where’s your camp?” 🙃
This isn’t that.

Step into a guided playground of real connection—where small talk fades, awkwardness melts, and new friendships (or more-than-friendships) spark through laughter, depth, and play.

💫 Expect laughter, warmth, brave truths, and maybe even your next cuddle buddy, co-creator, or unexpected spark.
🌀 All orientations & gender expressions welcome
🔥 Grounded in consent, play, and presence
Hosted by Shameless Heather
📍 Butt Disco | Friday @ Noon

02/02/2026

🔥 LOVE BURN MIAMI | THURSDAY @ NOON | Outpost 33 🔥
The Science of Sensory Attraction workshop at

This playful, flirty speed-friending & dating workshop explores what draws you to someone—through taste, scent, sound, touch, and intuitive chemistry.
Blindfolds. Science. Consent. Mini-encounters.
❤️‍🔥 Embodied. Consent-forward. Sensory.
Come solo, partnered, poly, or curious. Adults 18+.
➡️ With Shameless Heather from

01/30/2026

It’s tonight! 🔥✨
I’m feeling excited, nervous, and deeply honored to be sharing the stage at Ignite: After Dark with this lineup of bold, brilliant, and beautifully human speakers.
We’re talking desire, identity, intimacy, grief, kink, connection, and everything in between — 5-minute talks that go deep and stay real.
The theater is sold out, but good news:
Streaming tickets are still available!
If you’re curious, come join us from wherever you are. It’s going to be raw, real, and unforgettable.
Link in bio
*xPositive

01/19/2026

😬 Ever been in a relationship where one of you wants s*x more than the other?

That’s called a desire discrepancy—aka mismatched libido—and it’s way more common (and less shameful) than we’re led to believe.

On Jan 30 at Ignite After Dark in SF, I’m giving a 5-minute talk on how couples can navigate mismatched desire without pressure, blame, or giving up.
It’s honest, hopeful, a little funny, and full of what I’ve learned as a s*x & intimacy coach (and as a former higher-desire partner myself).
If you’ve ever asked, “What’s wrong with our s*x life?” — come find a better question.
🎤 Ignite After Dark�
📍 San Francisco · Jan 30, 7pm�
🎟️Tix: https://heyupto.com/t/e1D96Lwz2skQY


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10/01/2025

Welcome to the Self Love Club 💖
If you’ve ever looked in the mirror and thought,
“I’ll love my body when...” — this is for you.
Join me for BodyPositive, a joy-filled workshop on October 4 at beautiful Lupin Lodge (yep, the one with the hot tub, pool, tennis & trails 🌲💦).
💃 Come shake off self criticism 
🌞 Soak up sun and self-love
💬 Laugh, move, connect, and celebrate your amazing body — just as it is
No shaming. No fixing. Just FREEDOM.
✨ Use code ShamelessFriends for $10 off your ticket!
🎟️ Grab yours now — link in bio
Come as you are. Leave feeling like more of yourself than ever. 💕

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09/29/2025

Join me Saturday, October 4. 👇🏼
BodyPositive is happening at Lupin Lodge — and it’s more than a workshop.
It’s a full-on celebration of body freedom, radical self acceptance, and joyful embodiment — with a pool side bbq, karaoke Friday, a masquerade dance party, and permission to be exactly as you are.

💖 Workshop + day pass = $35 (normally $45 for day pass alone!)
🛖 Optional camping & yurts available
🎟️ Sign up → link in bio

09/22/2025

What if you didn’t have to love your body to feel at home in it?

In a world that trains us to critique, hide, or fix our bodies, simply feeling at ease in yourself is powerful.

🌀 BodyPositive: A Somatic Workshop

Friday, Oct 4 | 4–5:30 PM
Lupin Lodge | Los Gatos, CA

This 90-minute experience invites you to reconnect with your body — gently, playfully, and on your own terms.

We’ll use movement, reflection, and simple somatic practices to loosen the grip of shame, invite presence, and reclaim your body as a place of wisdom and belonging.

🌲 Your ticket includes a full day pass to enjoy Lupin's redwood-soaked grounds — hot tub, sauna, pool, trails, and café.

🛖 Yurt stays are available if you want to make it a mini-retreat.

✨ Come exactly as you are — no pressure, no performance. Just space to breathe, move, and be.

🎟️ Save your spot here:
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BodyPositive is a workshop designed to melt shame, reclaim your story, and nurture radical body compassion.

09/12/2025

Feeling disconnected doesn’t mean something’s wrong with you.
It means you’re human.
This Saturday, join me at Lupin Lodge for a workshop to feel more alive, connected, and real — in your body, in community, and in nature.
📍 Lupin Lodge (Los Gatos)
📆 Sat Sept 13
🎟️ Link in bio — Use code FEELREAL for $10 off
🛖 Optional overnight accommodations, (turn it into a mini retreat!)
Come solo or bring a friend — either way, you’ll be met.
I’d love to see you there. ❤️