10/05/2025
I was going over the notes from my Desire Embodied Workshop at a recent festival — those little slips of paper where people had poured out their deepest, most s€xy desires.
Someone had written the word Presence — not once, but three times — and each time, it was spelled incorrectly.
It wasn’t just a typo. It felt like a mirror.
A reflection of how deeply misunderstood — and how desperately longed for — presence still is. Presence isn’t something you “do.”
It’s something you tune into… and stay with.
It’s the foundation of connection.
— The difference between a date that feels like a dream and one that’s painfully awkward.
— Between lo******ng that feels cosmic and primal and the kind that leaves you aching and empty.
It’s what allows you to stay grounded and deeply attuned to your lover — 💡 If staying here — fully in your body, fully in the moment — is something you still struggle with when it matters most, this is what is also important to remember .
✨ Presence cannot be reached in a state of stress. ✨
It’s the opposite of stress. You can’t “achieve” it by pushing harder, staying busy, thinking faster, or trying to control more. It’s the art of downregulating your system — shifting out of grind mode, out of anxiety, overthinking, and constant doing
— and into a field of innocence, curiosity, and deep whole body listening.
Eventually, presence becomes embodied — a positive kind of autopilot that makes you magnetic, trusted, and profoundly desired. Yes please!
And if you want to regain these skills
to master the art of switching from stress to rare, magnetic presence that makes a difference in relationships, reach out to me in a DM. Let’s chat.
Or check out my private MAUI Immersion:
https://evesoboleva.com/maui-muse-immersion
I I have only 3 spots left for men ready to interrupt the hustle and immerse themselves in a bespoke 1:1 Maui experience — a powerful reset where presence is reclaimed, mojo is reignited, and life flows with ease again.
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