Center for Mindful Psychotherapy

Center for Mindful Psychotherapy Counseling Center offering mindfulness based psychotherapy in convenient locations around the San Francisco Bay Area. Contact us to find your therapist.

If you think you might need some help...

Relieving Depression or Anxiety
Moving through Grief and Loss
Overcoming Addiction
Processing Trauma
Deepening Spiritual Growth
Managing Stress or Transitions
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When someone you love dies, people often say some version of "let me know if you need anything." 💛And they mean it. But ...
02/17/2026

When someone you love dies, people often say some version of "let me know if you need anything." 💛

And they mean it. But grief has a way of making it almost impossible to ask.

So you stop talking about it. You learn to edit yourself. And slowly, the loneliness of loss becomes its own kind of weight.

Our newest blog post explores why grief is so isolating, what actually helps, and why healing in community can reach places that grieving alone cannot. 🌿

Here's some of what we explore:
✨ Grief isn't just sadness. It shows up as anger, guilt, numbness, relief, brain fog, physical exhaustion, and waves of all of these at once. Nothing is wrong with you.
✨ Grief has no timeline. It circles back on birthdays, holidays, ordinary Tuesdays. That's not failure. That's love.
✨ Group therapy offers something individual therapy can't: the experience of being witnessed by others who truly get it.

Research shows that bereaved adults consistently rate peer support groups among the most helpful sources of care, often more so than family, colleagues, or even professional providers. 💡

We also share details about a new grief group starting this spring in San Francisco, led by Elaine Walker, LMFT, using art, ritual, mindfulness, and community.

If you or someone you know is navigating loss, our therapists are here. 💚

Read the full post: https://mindfulcenter.org/grief-group-therapy-in-san-francisco-why-healing-loss-in-community-matters/

Grief can be one of the loneliest experiences there is. 💔Even when people around you care, it can feel like no one truly...
02/14/2026

Grief can be one of the loneliest experiences there is. 💔

Even when people around you care, it can feel like no one truly understands what you're carrying. So you learn to say "I'm fine." And the loneliness of loss becomes its own kind of pain.

You don't have to keep carrying it alone.

We're excited to share that Elaine Walker, LMFT, a Center for Mindful Psychotherapy alumni therapist, is launching a new grief group this spring in San Francisco. 🌿

This group is for anyone mourning someone significant: a parent, a partner, a sibling, a close friend. If the relationship mattered, the grief matters. There is no threshold your loss needs to meet.

Here's what makes this group different:✨ It's not just talk. Elaine weaves together art, ritual, mindfulness, and community so grief can be expressed through more than words alone.✨

Sometimes what we feel lives deeper than language can reach, and this group honors that.

The details:
🗓 Every Thursday, 5:00 to 6:30 PM
📍 Elaine's office on Fillmore Street, San Francisco
⏳ 12 weeks
💲 $75 per session
🤝 In person

Elaine offers a brief phone consultation before the group begins. That conversation is simply a chance to ask questions and get a sense of whether the group feels right."Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion."

✨Visit Elaine's website for more information and contact her directly 💚

Has your mind has been working overtime lately? 🧠Maybe you've noticed yourself catastrophizing about every news alert, r...
01/28/2026

Has your mind has been working overtime lately? 🧠

Maybe you've noticed yourself catastrophizing about every news alert, replaying conversations on loop, or feeling stuck between "I should do more" and "I can't do anything."

That's your brain trying to protect you. But sometimes the thoughts that are meant to help just... don't.

Good news: you can work with your thinking patterns, even when life feels chaotic. 💡

Our January newsletter explores three cognitive behavioral therapy approaches that help you work WITH your mind instead of fighting it:
✨ CBT - Learn to question your thoughts instead of automatically believing them
✨ ACT - Move forward with what matters even when anxiety tags along
✨ DBT - Hold two truths at once (yes, it's hard AND you can handle it)

We also share 7 practical exercises you can try today - no therapist required (though we're here when you're ready 😊).

"Rarely, if ever, are any of us healed in isolation. Healing is an act of communion." - bell hooks ✨

Read the full newsletter on Substack: https://centerformindfulpsychotherapy.substack.com/p/center-for-mindful-psychotherapy-e16

Our Associate MFTs throughout the Bay Area specialize in these approaches at accessible rates. Contact us today.

Are you crushing your goals but secretly running on fumes? We see you, high achiever. 💔That persistent anxiety, that dee...
12/29/2025

Are you crushing your goals but secretly running on fumes? We see you, high achiever. 💔

That persistent anxiety, that deep-seated exhaustion... It’s your high achieving nervous system stuck in a primal survival mode, constantly demanding performance to prove your worth.

At Center for Mindful Psychotherapy (CMP) in the San Francisco Bay Area, we know that this Nervous System Dysregulation is often a symptom of early, subtle relational trauma. Your body has learned to mistake relentless productivity for safety, and the cost is chronic burnout.

In our recent blog post, we look at:

The Survival Triad: We break down the three exhausting habits driving your depletion: People Pleasing (the Fawn Response), Chronic Overthinking, and Hyper Responsibility. These aren't flaws; they are brilliant, but draining, strategies for trauma driven survival.

The Path is Bottom-Up: Healing isn’t about doing more. It’s about teaching your body to truly feel safe and grounded again through Nervous System Regulation.

Integrated Healing: We specialize in integrated approaches. Modalities like Somatic Therapy and Internal Family Systems (IFS) work with the body and your internal parts (like the Inner Critic) to create lasting, systemic change.

Our work reverses the dynamic of trauma driven survival: we shift you from constant mobilization to genuine, grounded capacity, where action flows from choice, not compulsion.

We believe this level of specialized trauma and attachment-focused therapy should be accessible. Our associate therapists are extensively trained in these integrated approaches and offer expert care at more affordable rates for the Bay Area community.

https://mindfulcenter.org/the-journey-of-self-reclamation-shifting-the-high-achieving-nervous-system-from-survival-to-authentic-capacity/

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12/23/2025

Stop Overthinking in 60 Seconds! Try This Simple Somatic Exercise.

Is your mind racing tonight? When you are overstimulated, your brain struggles to "digest" all the information and stress of the day, leaving you wired and exhausted.

Our Associate MFT, Rachel Lefkowitz Parnes, shares an incredibly simple, body centered trick to interrupt that cognitive loop and bring your nervous system back to rest. It is called palming, and it only takes 60 seconds!

Here is the micro practice:

Rub your hands together to generate heat.
Cup the warm hands over your eyes.
Let the warmth signal safety and rest to your nervous system.
The warmth over your eyes helps interrupt the constant visual input, giving your vagus nerve a calming signal. This is a perfect example of somatic self care.

What's Yours to Carry? 🤲December asks a lot of us. The pressure to finish strong at work, show up perfectly at gathering...
12/17/2025

What's Yours to Carry? 🤲

December asks a lot of us. The pressure to finish strong at work, show up perfectly at gatherings, find the right gifts, be present for everyone, and somehow also pause to reflect meaningfully on the year.

No wonder so many of us arrive at the holidays already depleted.

But here's something worth sitting with: much of the exhaustion we feel isn't from what's actually ours. It's from carrying what belongs to others, to systems, to futures that haven't arrived yet.

Our December newsletter explores this question, and it might shift something for you.

Inside this month's issue:
🌿 A reflection on discerning what's yours to carry, and practicing the release of what isn't
🌿 Featured Associate Rachel Lefkowitz Parnes on why "not enoughness" is everywhere right now, even for people who are objectively doing well
🌿 The 3 quiet habits that drain your energy (people-pleasing, overthinking, hyper-responsibility) and how to interrupt them
🌿 A 60-second somatic exercise to help your nervous system digest the day
🌿 An introduction to Somatic Experiencing for those curious about body-based healing
🌿 Karen Baker's upcoming 6-week group, The Change Circle, for anyone navigating life transitions

One small practice: Write down everything you're holding right now. Circle only what is genuinely yours. Notice what remains uncircled. Practice, even just for today, letting those things belong where they belong.

You don't have to carry everything. You never did.

Read the full newsletter on Substack: https://centerformindfulpsychotherapy.substack.com/p/center-for-mindful-psychotherapy-7b0

💙 If this message found you at the right moment, we're glad. Take good care of yourself this season.

Why Are You So Exhausted? It’s Not Just Your Schedule.Do you feel perpetually drained, even when you are technically res...
12/16/2025

Why Are You So Exhausted? It’s Not Just Your Schedule.

Do you feel perpetually drained, even when you are technically resting? The biggest energy sinks aren't always external deadlines, but the quiet, psychological habits running in the background.

Our Associate MFT, Rachel Lefkowitz Parnes, breaks down the three insidious habits keeping your nervous system on high alert:

1. People Pleasing: It’s actually a survival strategy (the "fawn response") that keeps your stress system activated.

2. Chronic Overthinking: Your brain is burning energy solving problems that do not exist yet (hyperactivity in the Default Mode Network).

3. Hyper Responsibility: The belief that you have to control everything to be safe is intensely energy intensive.

These are learned adaptations, not flaws! You are not failing; your system is simply running a protective program that needs an update.

Ready to reclaim your energy? The full post explains the science behind these drains and gives you specific, somatic practices like the "What’s Mine to Carry?" method to start interrupting the patterns today.

https://mindfulcenter.org/amft-shares-3-quiet-habits-that-drain-your-energy-and-how-to-break-the-cycle/

🌀 Stuck in the In-Between? It's Time to Embrace the Change. 🦋Have you ever intellectually understood a major life transi...
12/16/2025

🌀 Stuck in the In-Between? It's Time to Embrace the Change. 🦋

Have you ever intellectually understood a major life transition, a breakup, a new city, a job shift, a big loss, but still felt physically and emotionally stuck? 🤔 You talk about it, you think about it, but your body is still holding its breath? You are not alone. That stuck feeling is your brilliant nervous system trying to process energy from the past.
We all know change is hard. But what if we told you that true integration of change must happen not just in your mind, but in your body? 🧘‍♀️

That's the powerful, embodied approach of The Change Circle, a 6-week online somatic therapy group led by our trusted former Associate, Karen Baker, LMFT.

Karen specializes in body-centered healing and creating a fiercely empathetic space for profound shifts. ✨

Here’s what you gain from joining this group:

- You move beyond talk: Use gentle somatic practices to release trapped energy related to past shifts. 🌬️
- You find community: Share your journey with others who are navigating their own life transition support in a safe, non-judgmental space. 🫂
- You build resilience: Learn tools to regulate your nervous system so you can approach future changes with strength and stability. 💪

Karen, known for her intuitive and depth-oriented approach, loves working with people who are deeply curious and committed to healing. If you are ready to stop feeling paralyzed by transition and start feeling powerfully embodied in your new normal, this group is for you. 💜

Read our blog post introducing Karen and the group, and find out how to schedule your introductory call. Your body is ready for this shift.

https://mindfulcenter.org/embracing-the-inevitable-join-the-change-circle-group-series-with-karen-baker-lmft/

To join The Change Circle, please reach out directly to Karen Baker, LMFT: Karen@PacificHolisticTherapy.com

12/09/2025

🫠 Is Your Worth Tied to Your To Do List? Let’s Talk About “Not Enoughness”

Have you ever hit a major goal, gotten glowing praise, or had a wonderful conversation and still felt that quiet, nagging voice that says, "I'm not doing enough" or "I should be handling this better"? You are not alone. That pervasive feeling of not enoughness is something our Associate MFT, Rachel Letkowilz Parmes, hears every single day from high achieving clients.

The truth is, you are not broken. You are having a very human response to a culture that confuses output with worth.

Here are 3 key takeaways from Rachel’s perspective:

The comparison culture is louder than ever, making the bar for "enough" impossible to reach.

Stress makes everything look worse, causing your mind to default to self criticism when you are low on energy.

Often, the real scarcity isn't time, but the attention you are giving to yourself.

If you are constantly trying to produce more to feel safe, your energy will always be depleted. Healing this starts with a simple shift: turning back toward yourself.

Ready to interrupt the pattern? Read Rachel’s full post and try her gentle practice for redirecting your attention.

https://mindfulcenter.org/a-therapists-view-why-not-enoughness-is-everywhere-right-now/

Interested in connecting with a therapist who understands performance culture and anxiety? Contact us today.

Meet Madison Parikka, M.A., AMFTWe're excited to introduce you to one of our associate therapists who brings warmth, cur...
12/08/2025

Meet Madison Parikka, M.A., AMFT

We're excited to introduce you to one of our associate therapists who brings warmth, curiosity, and a sometimes whimsical approach to therapy.

Madison sees therapy as "a coming together, an exploration, and a place to look inward—to see and be seen." Her approach is deeply compassionate, non-judgmental, and tailored to your unique needs and goals.

What makes Madison's practice distinctive:

She believes in the inherent wisdom of your mind, body, and spirit, as well as the power of nature and creativity in healing. Whether you're navigating grief, working on boundaries, exploring your identity, or healing from trauma, Madison creates space for you to zoom out, tune in, and discover your own path forward.

Madison specializes in working with:
✨ Adults, teens (13+), and couples
✨ LGBTQIA+ individuals and gender expansive folks
✨ People navigating grief, loss, and end-of-life transitions
✨ Only children and complex or unusual family systems
✨ Artists and people in creative careers
✨ Anyone working through adjustment, anxiety, depression, or relationship challenges

Her therapeutic approach integrates:

Narrative Therapy, Humanistic Therapy, Mindfulness, Gestalt, and Trauma-Informed care

Madison received her M.A. in Counseling Psychology from The Wright Institute and her B.A. in communication and studio art from Cal Poly Humboldt.

Madison is currently accepting new clients for individual therapy, couples counseling, and teen therapy (virtual and in-person in Folsom, CA).

Visit mindfulcenter.org to learn more and schedule a consultation.

https://mindfulcenter.org/view/our-team/entry/182/

What if meditation didn't have to be so serious?Our associate therapist Madison Parikka, AMFT, shares a beautiful book r...
12/02/2025

What if meditation didn't have to be so serious?

Our associate therapist Madison Parikka, AMFT, shares a beautiful book review that might just change how you think about mindfulness practice.

The book? "A Handful of Quiet" by Thích Nhất Hạnh. A children's book that Madison says completely transformed her meditation practice.

Madison writes:"I thought I was supposed to meditate to be mindful and enlightened. This book offered an access point that didn't feel so serious and made me excited to connect with myself instead of dreading a practice."

What makes this book different:

It uses tangible elements (four pebbles you move from pile to pile) and rich imagery (flower, mountain, water, space) to help you ground and connect. Each element represents something we all have within us: freshness, calm, clarity, and freedom.

"It almost feels like play, in a way. Allowing the mind to engage with the imagery while grounding and connecting has made me excited to meditate."

This approach is perfect if you:

Feel like traditional meditation never quite works for you
Need structure and activities to stay engaged
Are a more "tangible" and active meditator
Want meditation to feel less intimidating
Appreciate gentle guidance and imagery

Madison reflects: "I get so much more out of the experience if I take my expectations way down, and allow it to be a practice more of settling and connecting than of enlightenment and change."

This is the kind of therapist who brings creativity, playfulness, and genuine humanity to the work. Who understands that being human is "wild and hard" and that finding little ways to slow down and just be is necessary.

Read Madison's full review and discover more about her integrative approach to therapy that weaves together mindfulness, creativity, and nature. Visit our website and therapist directory to learn more.

https://mindfulcenter.org/a-handful-of-quiet-by-thich-nhat-hanh-a-review-by-amft-madison-parikka/

You notice the pattern again. Relationships start well, but as you grow closer, something shifts. Maybe you create dista...
12/01/2025

You notice the pattern again. Relationships start well, but as you grow closer, something shifts. Maybe you create distance. Maybe you become anxious when your partner needs space. Maybe the whole dynamic feels painfully familiar.

Here's what many people don't realize: these aren't character flaws. They're attachment trauma relationship patterns—protective strategies your nervous system developed when your earliest relationships taught you that closeness meant danger.

7 signs attachment trauma may be affecting your relationships:

1. Push-pull patterns in intimacy – You want closeness but feel compelled to create distance when things get too intimate
2. Difficulty trusting partners – Even when they've proven reliable, you struggle with hypervigilance and suspicion
3. Fear of abandonment or engulfment – You're terrified of being left OR of losing yourself in the relationship
4. Repeating the same relationship dynamics – Despite promising yourself things will be different, you keep choosing similar partners or falling into identical patterns
5. Emotional dysregulation with partners – Small conflicts trigger intense reactions that feel outside your control
6. Difficulty with vulnerability – You want intimacy but showing your authentic self feels terrifying
7. Feeling unworthy of love – Deep down, you believe you're too damaged or too much for someone to truly love

These patterns make sense given what you experienced. Early childhood trauma relationships created neural pathways that continue operating even when they no longer serve you.

The good news? Attachment wounds can heal. Therapy approaches like Brainspotting, EMDR, IFS, and somatic work address these patterns at their source—in your nervous system, where the original wounds live.

You're not broken. You're carrying wounds that can heal.

Read the full post to understand each sign in depth and discover how attachment-focused therapy creates lasting change.

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