Bruce Hearn Psychotherapy

Bruce Hearn Psychotherapy I am a licensed marriage and family therapist who works in San Francisco and online. I am an LGBT friendly therapist.

I provide individual psychotherapy and marital counseling for anxiety, depression, life transitions and relationship distress. Hello, if you've reached this page you might be looking to find out more about my psychotherapy services. In my San Francisco, California psychotherapy practice I have specialized in working with couples and men since 2012. I make use of cutting-edge therapy modalities to help the people I work with to understand themselves more deeply and create positive change. For couples I especially enjoy facilitating change where two individuals get to become more of a cohesive couple. I like to help people who have long shied away from intimacy and emotion to develop more comfort and even welcome it. I have worked with couples where one or both partners are neurodivergent, where there may be some ADHD, and where childhood trauma has left a mark. The people I work with have various racial, religious and cultural backgrounds. I do work with women as well as men, and am especially interested in working with people who came to the Bay area for work, far from home, who feel alone and wanting to build a sense of home and community.

Developmental trauma describes the profound impact of early, often chronic exposure to stressful or traumatic events. It...
08/26/2024

Developmental trauma describes the profound impact of early, often chronic exposure to stressful or traumatic events. It affects individuals at their core, influencing their emotional growth, relational patterns, and sense of self. Unlike single traumatic events that can lead to PTSD, developmental trauma encompasses the cumulative psychological wounds of neglect, abuse, and unstable or unsafe environments experienced during childhood. This…...

Developmental Trauma describes experiences where your needs were not met on an ongoing basis during childhood. Relational Therapy can help.

Anger is a potent emotion that, when managed well, can be a powerful tool for achieving goals. However, uncontrolled ang...
08/23/2024

Anger is a potent emotion that, when managed well, can be a powerful tool for achieving goals. However, uncontrolled anger can harm relationships, workplace dynamics, and physical health. Therapy aids in identifying triggers, developing coping strategies, and improving communication. Effective management transforms anger into a constructive force, improving overall well-being....

Anger management is about understanding your anger and using it as an energy source to pursue your goals and strengthen your relationships.

A recent New York Times article on forgivenness reminded me of how important forgiveness is in relationships and about t...
05/05/2023

A recent New York Times article on forgivenness reminded me of how important forgiveness is in relationships and about the costs of not forgiving. In both my work and personal experience I have seen how ugly couples can get when resentment simmers on and on. Family members cut themselves off from each other, no longer attending family functions, staying in touch....

Letting go of bitterness and resentment by forgiving someone who hurt you can feel difficult, but can relieve you of anxiety and depression

Are you going through a big life change? You may be feeling a lot of stress. This is normal. When should you see a thera...
09/27/2022

Are you going through a big life change? You may be feeling a lot of stress. This is normal. When should you see a therapist? Some of the big changes that can happen in life are: Death of a loved one, or anticipating a death. Divorce, the end of a significant relationship Betrayal and loss of trust. Moving, or considering a move....

Life changes can cause a great deal of anxiety. At what point should you see a therapist to help you adjust to the changes you're facing?

Finding a robust basis for your self esteem can be a challenge in a world that encourages us to find it in all the wrong...
03/28/2019

Finding a robust basis for your self esteem can be a challenge in a world that encourages us to find it in all the wrong places

When you’re not grounded in your true self, you will measure your own worth by how others measure your worth. The metrics will show how valuable you are. You’ll try to make the proof objective, so that you have the data to prove how fast, how successful, how great you are. Or, on the other … C...

"men would waste this latest crisis of masculinity if they deny or underplay the experience of vulnerability they share ...
05/04/2018

"men would waste this latest crisis of masculinity if they deny or underplay the experience of vulnerability they share with women on a planet that is itself endangered"

Around the world, luridly retro ideas of what it means to be a man have caused a rush of testosterone – from Bollywood bodybuilding to nuclear brinkmanship

Has your life become a major distraction from your cell phone?
10/13/2017

Has your life become a major distraction from your cell phone?

New research is exploring how ignoring someone in favor of our mobile phone hurts our connections with others — and what we can do about it.

Retweeted The Good Men Project ():'White fragility' is a defensive response to real conversations about race.
08/18/2017

Retweeted The Good Men Project ():

'White fragility' is a defensive response to real conversations about race.

'White fragility' is a defensive response to real conversations about race.

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3841 24th Street
San Francisco, CA
94114

Opening Hours

Monday 8am - 6pm
Tuesday 8am - 6pm
Wednesday 8am - 6pm
Thursday 8am - 6pm
Friday 8am - 6pm

Telephone

+14155988956

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I work with men and women who struggle in personal relationships and who want to know more about themselves, feel more grounded and lead a more purposeful life. I help people to realize themselves more fully, improving relationships and self-awareness. If you are curious to know yourself more deeply, get in touch. The people I work with have various racial, religious, cultural backgrounds. I do work with women as well as with men, and welcome straight as well as gay or le***an people to my practice.