04/17/2026
I don’t spend a lot of time desensitizing my horses in the traditional sense. Instead of waving scary objects around and becoming the source of stress, I try to create real-life scenarios where the “chaos” exists away from me.
For example, this might look like bringing a horse in and out of the arena when another horse is buddy sour, or having someone ride a bike up and down the driveway. Situations like these allow the horse to experience distractions without associating me with the stress.
My goal is for the horse to look to me for answers and confidence. Rather than seeing me as something to worry about, they begin to associate me with relaxation and a sense of peace.
I also find that horses tend to be more honest in movement than when standing still. If you can ask your horse simple questions while things are happening around them, you can see whether they can stay responsive and let go of the surrounding chaos. That often gives you much clearer, more honest feedback.