02/16/2026
We’ve all felt it. That sudden, desperate urge to overhaul your entire life at 2 a.m.
You decide you need to wake up at 5 a.m. every day, meal prep exclusively organic lunches, color-code your calendar, and finally launch that side project. On the outside, it looks like high-achieving ambition.
But on the inside? It feels heavy. It feels urgent.
You’ve convinced yourself that if you could just "fix" your routine, your body, or your career, the anxiety would finally quiet down. But trying to force change when you are dysregulated is like trying to drive a car with the emergency brake on. You might move forward a few inches, but you’re burning out the engine.
Here is the truth: That frantic need for control isn't a productivity issue. It’s a safety issue.
From a trauma-informed perspective, the urge to "reinvent" yourself is often a flight response. Your nervous system is overwhelmed and scanning for a way to feel safe again. You don’t need a new planner or a stricter routine. You need regulation.
Real growth isn't about doing more; it's about untangling your worth from your productivity.
When you shift your focus from "fixing" yourself to regulating your nervous system, change stops feeling like a frantic escape and starts feeling like a steady, natural evolution. It’s about aiming for "B-Minus" consistency rather than "A-Plus" burnout.
Therapy isn’t just about talking; it’s about learning the tools to bring your body back to a place of safety so you can actually enjoy your life. You are allowed to be a work in progress without being a "project" that needs to be fixed.
If you are in California and you’re tired of oscillating between "manic productivity" and "couch paralysis," let's move you from surviving to steady.
Read more: https://www.macychapman.com/blog/panic-vs-productivity-nervous-system
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