12/04/2025
đ˛â¤ď¸ Surviving the Holiday Emotions Rollercoaster â¤ď¸đ˛
The holidays can feel like a Hallmark movie one minute and a full-blown emotional tornado the next. Twinkly lights + family dynamics + end-of-year reflection = BIG feelings. Hereâs your gentle reminder (and a few practical tips) to keep your heart steady this season:
1ď¸âŁ Name it to tame it
When you feel the wave coming (stress, sadness, overwhelm, irritation), pause and quietly name it: âThis is grief.â âThis is anxiety.â âThis is frustration.â Just labeling the emotion lowers its intensity.
2ď¸âŁ The 90-Second Rule
Emotions are chemical events in the body. Give them 90 seconds of mindful breathing and they naturally start to fade. Set a timer, breathe in for 4, out for 6. Youâve got this.
3ď¸âŁ Create a âPeace Pocketâ plan
Have one go-to thing that instantly calms you: a playlist, a walk around the block, stepping outside to look at the sky, texting your best friend a single emoji. Use it without guilt the second you need it.
4ď¸âŁ Lower the bar (itâs allowed!)
Perfect holidays only exist on Instagram. Good enough is more than enough. Say no when you need to. Order takeout on Christmas Eve. Wear pajamas all day. Your nervous system will thank you.
5ď¸âŁ Feel it AND hold space for joy
You can miss someone whoâs gone AND laugh at your cousinâs terrible jokes. You can feel stressed about money AND still love the glow of the tree. Both things can be true. Let them coexist.
You are not âruiningâ the holidays by having real emotionsâyouâre human, and thatâs beautiful.
Sending you the biggest virtual hug. Youâve got thisâone deep breath at a time. đ
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