Ray Doktor, Psy. D.

Ray Doktor, Psy. D. Ray Doktor, Psy. D., is a pioneer in the field of bridging psychology and Eastern philosophies to technologies, science, and spirituality. D.

He takes pride in helping people breakthrough their limited beliefs and challenges to attain Self-Mastery. works as a modern day relationship & rapid breakthrough coach. For the last 25 years, he’s successfully helped over 6k clients breakthrough limited beliefs and challenges to have better relationships, improved family life, and more success! A pioneer in the field of bridging psychology and Eastern philosophies to technologies, science, and spirituality, Dr. Ray has conducted workshops in the United States, Netherlands, Brazil, and England. He shared the same stages with Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle. Dr. Ray received his doctoral degree in clinical psychology, earned a master’s degree in counseling psychology, and an undergraduate degree in human behavior. Other advanced training includes: hypnotherapy, Gestalt therapy, guided imagery, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), qigong, PSYCH-K, meditation, sound healing, and somatic experience. His most profound mentorship involved traveling the world and assisting renowned psychologist Dr. Morris Netherton–a pioneer in his field and colleague of Fritz Perls, Carl Rogers, and Norm Shealy. And yes, his real last name is Doktor. Everyone gets a laugh about it, so he is used to it.

12/10/2025

In this video, we unpack how different generations age, mature, and adapt to life’s challenges. From why a 17 year-old in the 1980s looked drastically older than today, to how children now develop emotional maturity differently, this conversation explores how evolution, lifestyle, and environment shape who we become.

12/10/2025

12/09/2025

This video breaks down why addiction often looks like narcissism, why partners make excuses for harmful behavior, and how people-pleasing unintentionally enables the cycle. Learn how strong boundaries support real change, protect your emotional health, and create space for authentic connection.

12/08/2025

We dive into what conscious parenting really looks like — especially in a world where kids are exposed to social media, comparison culture, and body image pressures earlier than ever. If you’re a parent who wants to raise aware, confident, emotionally secure kids, this video will give you clarity, reassurance, and practical insights.

12/06/2025

Unhealed trauma can deeply affect how we communicate — but it’s important to separate what happened to us from the habits we still need to take responsibility for. In this video, we explore the difference between trauma responses (hypervigilance, trust issues, overstimulated nervous system) and communication patterns that require accountability.

12/04/2025

Many Gen X and Baby Boomer men feel like the world is moving on without them — especially when culture, communication, and relationships are changing so fast. But irrelevance isn’t a fixed reality. This video explores why some men feel left behind and how personal growth, emotional awareness, and adaptability can reconnect them to purpose and modern relationships.

12/03/2025

This clip breaks down the truth about boundaries, addiction, and enabling. Many people stay with partners or friends who repeatedly cross lines because they confuse unconditional love with unconditional tolerance. But holding firm boundaries isn’t cruelty — it’s the only path that creates real motivation for change.

12/02/2025

Even though I am a positive person, I still feel the hurt of humanity in my body. This song reminds me how connected we all are. If you are struggling today, I feel you and I am wishing you a gentle, beautiful day. You are not alone.

12/02/2025

Struggle to meditate because your mind is always racing? You’re not alone. This video reveals the easiest meditation technique for people with anxiety, overthinking, and restless energy.

11/29/2025

11/25/2025

Discover why even seasoned relationship coaches can struggle with trust—in themselves, in love, and in the universe. In this candid discussion, Dr. Ray opens up about balancing autonomy, expectations, and the fear of fully trusting God or the flow of life.

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About Dr. Ray

Ray Doktor, Psy. D., is a pioneer in the field of bridging psychology and Eastern philosophies to technologies, science, and spirituality. He received his doctoral degree in clinical psychology. He also earned a master’s degree in counseling psychology and an undergraduate degree in human behavior. Over the past 24 years,

Dr. Ray has worked as a transformational life coach, workshop facilitator, author, and accomplished speaker. He takes pride in helping people breakthrough their limited beliefs and challenges to attain Self-Mastery.

In addition to his formal clinical training, other advanced training includes: hypnotherapy, Gestalt therapy, guided imagery, Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), Neuro-linguistic programming (NLP), qigong, PSYCH-K, meditation, sound healing, and somatic experience.

Dr. Ray’s mentorship involved world travel assisting Dr. Morris Netherton–a pioneer in his field and colleague of Fritz Perls, Carl Rogers, and Norm Shealy. He also studied under Mantak Chia and Master Hong Liu. Dr. Ray has conducted workshops in the United States, Netherlands, Brazil, and England. He shared the same stages with Marianne Williamson, Bruce Lipton, John Gray, and Eckhart Tolle.