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Harvey Center for Relationships

What we seek in our partner is connection. Deep, relaxed, secure connection is the springboard to passion.

We help couples re-connect and stay connected by enhancing the positive, eliminating the negative and becoming each other's advocate. As Licensed Marriage and Family Therapists and certified Imago Relationship Therapists, we have helped hundreds of couples turn their marriage around and achieve lasting romance. Duane was trained by Harville Hendrix (author of Getting the Love You Want) in 1991. Additionally, Thea is a certified Kundalini yoga and meditation teacher. Married for over ten years, we practice together out of our home a few blocks up from the beach in beautiful Santa Monica. Every day we embody the relationship principals that we advocate for our clients.

11/13/2025

✨New on the Blog!✨

Ever argue with your partner about dishes, laundry, or who’s doing more around the house? You’re not alone — and those everyday conflicts often have deeper emotional roots.

In our latest post, “Turning Housework Conflicts into Connection: How Couples Therapy Helps Heal,” I share how a couple I worked with transformed a familiar argument into empathy, understanding, and renewed closeness. 💞

Discover how Imago Relationship Therapy helps partners move beyond blame and find connection in the moments that matter most.

🪞 Read the full story at harveycenterforrelationships.com/blog/ (link in bio).
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11/11/2025

Veterans Day 🇺🇸
Today we honor all who have served with courage and devotion.

At the Harvey Center for Relationships, this day is personal—Duane’s father was a paratrooper during the Korean War, one of my grandfathers was a WWII test pilot, the other served in the Navy, and my great-aunt proudly served in the WAVES (Women Accepted for Volunteer Emergency Service).

We recognize the bravery, sacrifice, and love of country that lives on through generations.
Thank you to all our veterans and their families for protecting our freedom and modeling resilience, commitment, and service. ❤️🤍💙

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11/01/2025

What happens when we bring intimacy, faith, and open communication into the same room? ✨

At St. Monica’s, I spoke about “Sacred Conversations: Nurturing Love and Intimacy in Marriage.” We talked about shame, desire, and the power of listening with empathy instead of fear.

When couples create space for honest, loving dialogue—hearts soften, bodies relax, and connection deepens.

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10/30/2025

I had the honor of speaking at St. Monica’s for their First 5 ministry on “Sacred Conversations: Nurturing Love and Intimacy in Marriage.” 💞
We explored how love deepens by cultivating pleasure, openhearted dialogue, presence, and the courage to talk about the tender things—s*x, shame, pleasure, and faith.
It was a beautiful reminder that intimacy is key in maintaining a thriving long-term relationship.
🙏 Thank you to the First 5 team and all the couples who showed up with such openness and grace.
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10/21/2025

👋TRY THIS WITH YOUR PARTNER 🫶
This guided hand caress sensate meditation is a special time to be with your partner and permit yourself to be expressive and sensual. CLICK THE LINK IN MY BIO for full access to the guided meditation. Decide who is going to be the active partner and the receiving partner. Afterwards, you will switch roles. Create a soothing environment that establishes safety and deep relaxation. Dim the lights, draw the curtains. Silence your phones, lock the door. Set aside at least 30 minutes with the option to take longer if the meditation launches you into deeper exploration. At the end of each turn, take a moment to share your impressions and feelings. Refrain from criticism, sarcasm, or judgement, even if your partner did not follow the guided instructions exactly. Meditation is not about doing it perfectly. Erotic arousal is a type of hypnotic trance of heightened vulnerability. Speak kindly while occupying this tender space. In a tactful manner, explain what you did and did not like. Be specific. Use descriptions such as it was ticklish, comforting, hot, cold, silky, coarse. Take turns speaking and listening just as you took turns receiving and giving touch.

10/16/2025

🎶 Seeing live music as a couple is such a powerful way to connect, let loose, and share in the joy of rhythm and sound. 💃🕺
Here we are about to see our dear friend —ready to enjoy the funk.

What about you? 👇 ✨ What live music do you and your partner love most? ✨ Do you prefer the buzz of a packed stadium or the intimacy of a small venue?

Photo: Tamra Raven

09/20/2025

It turns out we’re not America’s Favorite Couple - 💕. We want to congratulate the winners - Jennie & Bryan Drollingers - and thank every one of you who voted and donated.

🌟Together, the contest raised nearly $4 million for two amazing nonprofits: and , protecting the earth’s oceans. 🙌

Thank you for participating and sharing your heart with us! 💖 The contest celebrated love and devotion. Let your love shine today. ✨

08/28/2025

When you’re married with kids, going out on a date can feel like Mission Impossible. Between work, school schedules, and endless to-do lists, one-on-one time with your partner often slips to the bottom of the list.

Without intentional alone time, intimacy fades, and relationships start to feel more like roommates. Imagine never dating during the early romance phase—you’d lose that spark fast. 💔

This summer, Duane and I took a Waymo to see Mission Impossible—novelty ✔️, fun ✔️, connection ✔️.

💡 Pro tip: Don’t wait for your partner to plan the date—be proactive!
* Keep an eye out for babysitters.
* Steal away time while the kids are at school.
* Or set up a cozy indoor date while they watch a movie.

What are some of your tips to make date night happen?

08/24/2025

💗 Take a Recess.
In heated moments, conversations can quickly spiral into cutting words. That’s when it’s time to call a Recess—a pause you and your partner both agree on.
A Recess isn’t avoidance. It’s an intentional break that protects your bond, gives your nervous systems time to reset, and allows you to come back together ready to be relational again.
Next time things get too hot, remember: love isn’t about winning an argument—it’s about protecting the connection. ✨
Click the link in my bio to read more.

07/26/2025

The Frick and Carlyle Hotel - A date steeped in timeless romance: we wandered the gilded halls of the newly renovated Frick, lost in old-world masterpieces, followed by an indulgent, dreamy lunch at the Carlyle Hotel in Bemelmans Bar - named after Ludwig Bemelmans, the artist and author of the Madeline children’s books (my favorite), who adorned the legendary walls of the piano bar with whimsical murals of Central Park. From golden frames to white tablecloths, New York reminded us that art and love never go out of style.

Where are you headed for your next date?

07/19/2025

We made it to Round 3!

Thank you so much for your votes and support — it means the world to us. You can keep voting once every 24 hours!

The ocean has always been part of our love story. One of our first dates was a bike ride along the Pacific, ending on the beach where Duane read me Neruda’s poetry. That’s why it’s especially meaningful that this contest supports Oceana, an organization dedicated to protecting our world’s oceans.
If you care about clean oceans and preserving marine life, please consider making a donation. Click the link in mybio to vote.
And thank you again for being part of this journey with us. 💙🌊

07/12/2025

🗽 *xnyc : A Playful, Provocative NYC Experience 🖤
As a s*x therapist, I had to investigate the Museum of S*x in NYC, one-of-a-kind cultural gem exposing the history and evolution of human s*xuality. Located at 233 Fifth Ave, this adults-only spot is both educational and wildly entertaining.
Highlights include: ✨ Higher Love Exhibit: Dive into the psychedelic roots of modern s*xuality. 🎪 The S*xual History of the Carnival: Uncover the erotic origins of carnival traditions. 🎨 Super Funland: An immersive erotic carnival with interactive games and slide.
Whether you’re curious, open-minded, or just want a fun date idea, the Museum of S*x blends scholarship with playful discovery — perfect for couples or anyone 18+. Duane and I are still trying to figure out if we were suppose to eat the VIP gummies before or after our visit.
🕒 Plan for 1–2 hours to explore it all. Admission ranges from $29–$42. Open every day, with extended hours on weekends.
Would you dare to visit? 😏
*x *xtherapy

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2803 Highland Avenue
Santa Monica, CA
90405

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Monday	9am - 9pm
Tuesday	9am - 9pm
Wednesday	9am - 9pm
Thursday	9am - 9pm
Friday	9am - 12pm

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+13109484727

Website

http://www.harveycenterforrelationships.com/

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