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04/14/2026

This is where so many relationships struggle.

If love is only something you feel, then the moment frustration, stress, or disconnection shows up… it starts to feel like something is wrong.
�You question the relationship.�You pull back.�You protect yourself.

But love was never meant to carry a relationship on its own.

Feelings fluctuate.�Connection ebbs and flows.�Life gets hard.

What sustains a relationship is what you do in those moments.

It’s choosing to communicate instead of shut down.
�Choosing curiosity instead of criticism.�Choosing to repair instead of withdraw.�Choosing to stay engaged when it would be easier to check out.

This doesn’t mean tolerating unhealthy behavior or ignoring real issues.
�It means understanding that strong relationships are built through intentional actions—not just emotional highs.

Because when love becomes a practice…�it doesn’t disappear under pressure.�It grows through it. 🤍

Gratitude definitely increases desire in a relationship.

When you share your appreciation with partner it strengthens your connection.

When connection increases, it creates a space for desire to grow.

If you are looking for support with your relationship, just reach out!

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04/13/2026

Gratitude definitely increases the desire in a relationship.

When you share your appreciation with your partner, it strengthens your connection.

When connection increases, it creates a space for desire to grow.

Gratitude softens the emotional environment in a relationship and when the environment is in this state…intimacy thrives! 🩷🌷

If you are looking for support with your relationship, just reach out!

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Check out my international best selling book, Speaking of Sxx!

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04/07/2026

Love and kindness don’t live in the big, occasional gestures most people think of. 
They live in the everyday moments—quiet, consistent, often unnoticed.

It’s in how you speak when you’re frustrated.
 How you respond when your partner is vulnerable.
 How you show up when it’s inconvenient, when you’re tired, when life feels heavy.

These small acts might seem insignificant in isolation… but together, they create something powerful: emotional safety.

And emotional safety changes everything.

It allows people to soften instead of defend.
 To open instead of shut down.
 To feel chosen, valued, and secure in the relationship.

This is what deep connection is built on.
 Not perfection.

Not constant passion.
 But consistent care.

Because the strongest relationships aren’t made up of big moments.
 They’re made up of thousands of small ones—where love and kindness were chosen again and again. 🤍

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04/06/2026

Sxxual shame still affects many couples.

These inherited beliefs about sxx have got to go.

There is no room for shame!

IF you are looking for support with your relationship, just reach out!

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03/31/2026

Connection isn’t built in grand gestures.
 It’s built in the small, intentional moments that say, “You matter to me.”

So many couples feel disconnected not because they don’t love each other… but because they’ve stopped prioritizing these simple, daily behaviors.

Eye contact. Touch. Presence. Curiosity. Appreciation.

These things seem small—but they’re powerful.

They regulate the nervous system.
 They build emotional safety.
 They reinforce, “I choose you.”

And over time, those moments add up to something deep, secure, and lasting.

You don’t need more time.
 You need more intention with the time you already have. 🤍

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03/30/2026

This doesn’t mean you need to make extreme changes, keep it simple…get curious!

Ask your partner what they might be interested in trying.

Ask them what position has intrigued them that you haven’t tried.

Explore one another’s bodies, personal preferences evolve over time and needs change…for yourself and your partner.

Passion grows where curiousity lives!

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Check out my international best selling book, Speaking of Sxx!

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03/24/2026

So many people believe love either “works” or it doesn’t… as if it’s something that exists on its own without effort, intention, or awareness.

But the truth is—love is being shaped all the time.
 Not just in the big moments… but in the small, everyday ones.

It’s shaped in how you respond when you’re triggered.
 In the tone you use when you’re frustrated.
 In whether you choose curiosity or criticism.
 In whether you lean in… or pull away.

Every interaction is either building connection or slowly eroding it.

Long-term love isn’t sustained by chemistry alone.
 It’s sustained by two people who continue to choose the relationship— in how they speak, how they repair, how they show up, and how they treat each other when it’s inconvenient, uncomfortable, or hard.

Because love isn’t something you have.
 It’s something you create.
 Moment by moment.

Day by day.

And the relationships that last?
 They’re built by people who never stop choosing each other. 🤍

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03/23/2026

Curiosity helps to keep intimacy alive.

Evolving together can be incredibly connecting and a total turn on.

Long term passion isn’t about staying the same.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

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03/17/2026

Conflict has a way of pulling people into reaction mode.

When anger shows up, the instinct is often to match it—raise your voice, defend yourself, shut down, or say something you’ll regret later.

But if anger is always met with more anger, the conversation quickly turns into a battle instead of a path toward understanding.

Kindness in these moments doesn’t mean ignoring the issue or suppressing your feelings.

It means choosing how you respond, even when emotions are high.

It sounds like taking a breath before replying, asking a question instead of making an accusation, or softening your tone when things start to escalate.

In relationships, communication, and daily life, kindness has the power to interrupt the cycle.

It creates space for calm, clarity, and repair.

When one person chooses steadiness instead of escalation, it often helps the other person regulate too.

Anger may show up—but kindness can still choose to stand.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

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03/16/2026

The BEST sxx is rarely rushed, it’s built.

Utilize every opportunity with your partner to flirt, to be silly, to laugh, to connect…

THIS IS 4PLAY!

If you take these moments and build your connection, your body will respond.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

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03/10/2026

Today on my TT live we talked about something many couples experience but rarely discuss openly: desire discrepancy.

One partner wants s*x more often.
 One partner wants it less.
 And suddenly couples start wondering…

“Is something wrong with us?” “Am I not attractive anymore?” “Why don’t they want me like they used to?”

The truth is that different levels of desire are incredibly normal in long-term relationships.

Stress, hormones, mental load, relationship dynamics, emotional safety, health, medications, and even lifestyle habits can influence libido.

What matters most is how couples respond to the difference.

When partners approach desire with pressure, shame, or blame, intimacy often shuts down.
 But when they approach it with curiosity, empathy, and communication, something powerful happens — they start working together instead of feeling like they’re on opposite teams.

Desire thrives where there is emotional safety, connection, and understanding.

If you and your partner have different levels of desire, you’re not broken — you’re human.

And with the right conversations and support, many couples learn how to navigate this difference in ways that actually strengthen their intimacy.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

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Check out my international best selling book, Speaking of Sxx!

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03/09/2026

If someone feels criticized, dismissed, or unseen throughout the day it’s going to take effort to feel connected again.

Foreplay is consistent, it’s not meant just for the few minutes before being physically intimate with your partner.

It means taking every opportunity to be intentional about how you are interacting with your partner. .
�In tone.
�In respect.
�In emotional attunement.

In acts of kindness.

You cannot demand erotic openness from someone who feels emotionally guarded.
�Connection isn’t a switch you flip at bedtime. It’s built all day long.

If you have any questions or need some support with your relationship, I am here to help you.

SEND ME A DM AND LET’S GET STARTED!

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Check out my international best selling book, Speaking of Sxx!

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Explore Intimacy serves couples that are looking to enhance their marriage or relationship by leveraging the educating and coaching experience of Shauna Harris. We specialize in solving intimacy issues and complexities that couples can’t achieve without outside consultation. We assess relationships, provide feedback, use science based strategies and implement tactics to promote healthy and intimate relationships. There is no knot or obstacle that we can’t untangle.