PowerfuLove, Seattle, WA (2025)

11/03/2025

🌈 CALLING ALL OF MY Q***R AND TRANS FB FRIENDS & FRAMILY! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

(Also... please share this!)

I've decided to start a Free monthly "Ask Anything" Relationship Support Call for LGBTQ+ folx.

Why?

Because relationships are hard…�For ALL couples.��

And then you add layers like q***rness, gender identity, neurodivergence, trauma, family history, or living in a culture that still struggles to see and celebrate us fully... 😫😡��
..it can feel impossible to find real support, tools, and guidance that actually understand our lived experience.
Trust me… I get it.

PLUS... No one ever taught ANY of us how to do relationships well…�..Let alone how to do it while navigating all the complexity of being who WE are in this world!!!

Butand…�(and listen up, because this part is REALLY important!) 👀

I believe our relationship struggles carry sacred invitations ✨�
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❤️‍🔥 That every hurt, every fight, every frustration we’re courageous enough to address…�..invites us into EXACTLY the healing and growth we need…�
to be the best version of ourselves and unlock the true potential of our marriage.��

❤️‍🔥 Every rupture, every pattern, every heartbreak we’re brave enough to face…�...can open us to deeper love, freedom, and authenticity…�…if we have the support and tools to meet them consciously. 💜

And that’s why I’m offering a free monthly “Ask Dr. Jeni” Relationship Support Call for our LGBTQ+ community.��

This is a space for connection, guidance, healing, and hope.�A space to ask your real questions, share your truth, and receive wisdom from someone who "gets it," who’s walked through it all, and come out the other side.

💫 This call is my love offering to our community. 🌈

No cost, no pitch—just support, compassion, and wisdom for wherever you are on your journey.

If you feel called to offer a financial appreciation, you’re welcome to pay what you can—but it’s never required.

🗓 When: Second Tuesday of each month, 12pm Pacific
✨ First Call: November 11
💻 Sign Up Here: https://www.bit.ly/askdrjeni

🔥 Let’s rise together, family… healing, learning, and loving more powerfully than ever before. 💖 After all… we need each other more than ever right now… and in truth, the WORLD needs US (AND a whole lot more and better love.) ❤️‍🔥

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If the algorithm caught you and you don't know me yet... Here's a quick run-down on the important bits!

Hi! 👋🏼

I’m Dr. Jeni Wahlig… a q***r, genderq***r relationship nerd with a master’s and PhD in Couple & Family Therapy and nearly 20 years of experience.

My partner and I live and love at the intersections: q***r, trans, in*******al, polyam, neurospicy, blended family, and couplepreneurs.

I’ve lived through a LOT, where relationships are concerned… abuse, divorce, co-parenting, sexless seasons, high-conflict chaos, emotional shutdowns, mental illness… and yes, the heartbreak of almost losing the love that means everything.

Even with all my training, my current relationship once felt unbearable. Bleeding me, instead of feeding me.
“Not good...” would be a GIGANTIC understatement! 💔

But through deep personal work and transformation, we turned it around… from unbearable to unbelievable… and now, believe it or not, we actually work TOGETHER to support other couples in transforming their relationships too. (Still blows me away!) 🤯
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You can learn more about us and the work we do at www.powerfulove.com

🔥 And if you're a powerful womxn who's ready for deep, powerful transformation... then our new program, Fulfilled, might be the solution you've been looking for!

👉🏼DM me "FULFILLED" and we'll schedule a quick chat to get your questions answered and find the best way to get you to the marriage your soul (and success) truly deserve!

11/02/2025

👀 Guess who’s speaking at her first eWomen event next week!?

‼️ Seattle area entrepreneurs… come join me in Bellvue this Tuesday, 11/4 (12-2) for lunch, networking, and a POWERFUL presentation that will unlock a new level of leadership in love AND business!

👉🏼https://www.ewomennetwork.com/event/relationship-roi-the-power-move-that-transforms-your-life-and-your-business-11-04-2025-11486/register

10/31/2025

🔥 S**t That’s GOT to Change
Ep. 5 – Good… is NOT Good Enough (& How to Make It Better)

You say your marriage is “good.”
Sorry. I don’t buy it.

Because most of the time, “good” just means you’ve learned to live without something you actually want.

In this week’s Catalyst Conversation, I’m naming the lie that keeps most couples stuck.....and sharing the truth about what it really takes to make love extraordinary.

✨ Go deeper inside The Relationship (R)Evolution: where powerful women (& the partners who love them) learn to lead love differently.
Learn more and join here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

Subscribe to our YouTube Channel for all of our Catalyst Conversations! https://www.youtube.com/

10/31/2025

🚨 You say your marriage is “good.”
Sorry.
I don’t believe you. 🤷🏻‍♀️

Listen, I’ve talked to enough women to know what “good” usually means...

It means you’ve made peace with living with dynamics in your relationship that you ACTUALLY wish would change.
Like..... Distance.....Or defensivness.....Or yelling at the kids... .. doing more than your fair share...
or generally feeling unseen, unheard, or unfulfilled.

Most people never listen to that whisper.
They wait until it’s a scream.
And when that happens... well, you either know... or you’ll see.

But if you want a sneak peak, or to know what to do so that your marriage/relationship can be BETTER than good... .. then today's Catalyst Conversation is for you!

🔥 S**t That’s GOT to Change
Ep. 5 – “Good… is NOT Good Enough (& How to Make It Better)”

📆 Live TODAY @ 12:30 Pacific (Right here!)

Can't make it Live?

🙋🏻‍♀️ Comment "REPLAY" and I'll make sure you get access!

❤️‍🔥 And if you're ready to go beyond learning and into a deeply transformational mastermind so that you can finally start experiencing the love that your soul and success deserve... the doors to Fulfilled are open!

👉🏼DM me "Fulfilled" for more information and to apply.
(I've got some pretty sweet bonuses lined up for early enrollment, too!)

10/28/2025

"It's gotten to the point where I don't even bother saying anything anymore... until I do, and then it's a lot."

My client had stopped sharing her thoughts, feelings, needs, and experiences with her husband because when she did... DEFENSIVENESS... CONFLICT... HURT. 💔

And it happened that way So... Many... Times.

And if you can relate... you're not alone. (I know I sure can!)

Experiences like these... SO common for women in particular... is EXACTLY why I've created Fulfilled.

Fulfilled is a transformational mastermind for visionary women who are DONE struggling, settling, and holding it all in... and are ready to finally receive the kind of love that fuels their soul, their success, and their purpose.

Inside, you’ll learn the exact tools, skills, and relational leadership so your relationship can...

❤️‍🔥 Heal from the patterns that have kept you stuck in silence
❤️‍🔥 Foster safety and care in communication
❤️‍🔥 Become a consistent source of energy, support, joy, & fulfillment in your life
❤️‍🔥 Inspire your partner to rise into their own growth and evolution (even if they're not actively participating in this work with you!)

Because when a woman is fulfilled in love..... she’s unstoppable in life.
And the world needs what a wildly fulfilled YOU will do. ✨

The investment is $7,000

DM me for the application to see if you qualify.
Access exclusive early enrollment bonuses before December 15.

‼️ (And if you want to know more of the story... tune in tomorrow for Part 2... HIS response and MY response to him...)

10/27/2025

Craving a LOVE that mirrors the LIFE you're working so hard to build?

Check out the recent podcast interview I did with the amazing Lia Michaella Pinelli, on her "The Life You Crave" podcast!

We talk-
❤️‍🔥 Letting go of old relationship baggage
❤️‍🔥 Owning your part with compassion
❤️‍🔥 Leading with love (even when it’s hard)
❤️‍🔥 And so much more...

💥 You’ll also hear practical communication tools you can start using TODAY... .. because you deserve to start experiencing a relationship NOW that honors and reflects all that you do... .. all that you give... ..and ALL THAT YOU ARE.

Catch the episode here: https://www.liapinelli.com/podcast/powerful-love-method

‼️And if you haven't heard... doors to my new program, Fulfilled, are open!

Fulfilled is for the woman who is ready to revolutionize her experience of marriage...
..For the woman who is ready for her voice to be heard, for her feelings to matter, her needs to be met, her softness to be safe, and her soul to soar...
..For the woman who is done waiting. Who's ready to move forward, even if her spouse isn't willing to do the work with her (for now)

If you know that's you, DM me with questions or for the link to apply. 😘

10/24/2025

🔥 Catalyst Conversations: S**t That Has GOT. To. Change!
Ep. 5 – Women Deserve Better In Marriage.

You’re the glue. The planner. The soft place for everyone else.
But the safety, softness, and partnership you crave?
It’s not showing up the way you need.

You're not asking for too much.
And you’re not imagining it, either.

In this Catalyst Conversation, I'm naming what most women only whisper... and extending an invitation that could change how you experience marriage, starting now.

❤️‍🔥 Catch Catalyst Conversations live every Friday at 12:30 Pacific.

✨ Ready to claim more? Apply to FULFILLED- our 6-month movement for visionary women who refuse to settle: https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/FwU9pgGciYPI4o2eN6BI

🌱 Want weekly practice and community? Step inside The Relationship (R)Evolution: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

📺 Subscribe to our YouTube channel at https://www.youtube.com/ for more Catalyst Conversations and revolutionary relationship tools.

10/24/2025

Something’s off. 🫤
You feel it… even if you can’t quite name it.

Your life is good!
You love what you do.
You've built a beautiful family.

But there's something... missing... in your marriage.
It's in the connection...
The closeness you wish you had.
The communication you wish you COULD have.
The loneliness you too often feel... even when you're in the same room.

Maybe you've been wondering if this is just “what marriage is.”
Or... if you’re asking for too much.

Love... You’re not.

In today’s Catalyst Conversation, I’m bringing the truth that most women don’t want to admit out loud...
And the invitation that could change everything.

If you’ve been carrying more than your share, holding it all together, or quietly wondering if things will ever change in your marriage...
This one’s for you. 💔🔥

👉🏼 Join me live, right here... today at 12:30p Pacific
Let’s talk about what’s really going on,
And what it’s time to change.

Can't make it live?
I got you! Comment REPLAY, and I'll make sure you get access!

10/23/2025

I’ve been spending a lot of time in women’s spaces lately.

And it’s been... wonderful. Powerful. Clarifying. ✨

Because being surrounded by powerful, visionary women... ...women who are changing the world through their businesses, leadership, and brilliance... ..has made something abundantly clear to me:

WE WOMEN NEED EACH OTHER!❤️‍🔥
And the WORLD needs us! 💥
(Like... big time!)

Our warmth. Our wisdom. Our fire.
Our capacity to hold, lead, love, and create...

Butand...
What about what WE need?

Like, not from one another... ..at home... ..from the person who signed up to support us above and beyond anyone else in our lives?

Because the unfortunate truth of it is...

Most women... ..powerful and successful as we may be out in the world... ..Are NOT getting what we need from our marriages.

💔 We're still carrying too much.
Doing too much of the labor- practical AND emotional.

💔 We're still not getting through.
Being met with defensiveness, shut-down, or partners who simply don't know how to begin to open up to us.

And as we expand... growing and becoming more...
💔 It feels like our relationship isn't coming with us.
And the gap between what we know we deserve and what we are receiving... ..is creating a dissonance that's costing more than we may realize.

Because when a woman is undernourished in love,
everyone and everything she's a part of feels the ripple.

But when she’s fulfilled... lit up, supported, seen...
the whole world rises with her. 💗

And THAT is why I created Fulfilled.

Fulfilled is a movement, anchored in a community of visionary women who are ready to revolutionize their experience of marriage. 🥰

Fulfilled is where we learn how to effectively call our partner in...
👉🏼So that we may experience a relationship in which, more than ever before...
❤️‍🔥 Your voice is heard.
❤️‍🔥 Your feelings matter.
❤️‍🔥 Your needs are met.
❤️‍🔥 Your vulnerable parts feel safe.
❤️‍🔥 Your life and dreams are supported.
❤️‍🔥 Your heart is filled.
❤️‍🔥 And your soul... is on fire with love and possibilities..

If you can feel that pull..... if something in you knows it’s time for something better... .. then apply now for Fulfilled to see if you qualify.

https://api.leadconnectorhq.com/widget/form/FwU9pgGciYPI4o2eN6BI

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(OH! And if your partner/spouse wants to do this work with you, there IS space for them too. Part of what sets PowerfuLove apart is that we have TWO of us... and Calvin will be supporting your husbands/wives/spouses/partners in their own part of the journey.

Because ideally... they ARE doing the work too. Ideally... you're NOT carrying this on your own too. And ideally... you STILL get safe space with other women... for your OWN growth and empowerment. Fulfilled has been created to provide ALL of it. Because we know these issues... we live them too... and we're here for what is actually going to support you.

AND, if you join before 12/15/25, your partner/spouse gets into the program for FREE (PLUS, we've got a lot of other really great end-of-year bonuses available, so you can finish this year powerfully, and start 2026 with momentum that propels you into a future more fulfilling than you can imagine.)

10/17/2025

The greatest barrier between you and your partner isn’t communication, gender, or even your differences.

It’s an ILLUSION so pervasive that most couples never even realize it’s getting between them.

Join me in today’s Catalyst Conversation as we pull back the curtain on what’s really keeping you from the connection you crave—
and what it takes to finally break free.

✨ Ready to go deeper?
Join The Relationship (R)Evolution for the tools, structure, and community to lead your relationship powerfully: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

🎥 Subscribe to our YouTube channel so you never miss a Catalyst Conversation!
https://www.youtube.com/ channel

10/17/2025

Sister... I LOVE that you are strong, powerful, and successful, and I want that for you... BUT.....I ALSO want you to be loved, cherished, supported, and deeply connected to your spouse.

What does one have to do with the other?

Real talk, from one powerful, high-achieving, independent woman to another?

The badass boss-woman qualities we’ve embodied to succeed in the world…..can actually get in the way of us getting what we want in love. 😳

We’ve done our work, right?

And as a result… we can see clearly the work our PARTNER needs to do so that they can show up in the ways we need them to.

But when we ask for our needs to be met...
When we share what needs to change for things to get better... They don't show up.
They don’t do the work.
They don’t change.

Frustrating doesn’t even begin to cover it. 😖

(ESPECIALLY because, if the roles were reversed... YOU would.)

And also... F*CK!
It would be SO nice to finally have someone we could count on for REAL support when we need it most, and in the WAYS we need it.

But as it turns out...
There's something about our own strengths... ..That's likely sabotaging our efforts for relationship change.

(It certainly did... even still does at times!.. for me and Cal!)

In this week’s Catalyst Conversation... later today... I’m revealing what’s really going on...

👉🏼Why this dynamic not only doesn’t work…
but is quietly making things worse—
and what you need to understand,
and shift,
to finally get the connection, support, and love you’ve been craving.💜

🔥S**t That Has Got. To. Change! (Ep. 3):
Awakening From The Great Illusion
📅 Live, here on my page, Today at 12:30p Pacific

Can't make it live?
Comment "REPLAY" and I'll make sure you get access!

❤️‍🔥And if you want to go deeper into these conversations and move them from learning into embodied practice and real transformation... I invite you to join us in The Relationship (R)Evolution!
👉🏼Learn more and sign up here: https://docs.google.com/document/d/1X8hQRZLWnTTryE2SxbQDnyy3GA_VZNY8BCH4ny71IO4/edit?usp=sharing

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