Victims and survivors of Narcissistic, sociopathic, psychopathic abuse

02/01/2024

09/29/2022

Hello everyone I am so sorry for my absence but I am dealing with a serious illness and have to stay focused on getting better. Hopefully I will be back soon and I haven’t forgotten about you! I still read all comments and messsages when I can. Sending much love to you all and remember knowledge is power! ❤️

08/17/2022

“I am doing nothing wrong I am just “responding” to your behavior.

Can’t tell you how many times I hear this.. if you are in a relationship with a narcissist you will soon learn that everything is “your fault” well it is in their minds anyways and they will try to convince not only you but everyone else that it is as well. If this type of gaslighting is happening to you just remember it is literally impossible for one person to be right all of the time and one person be wrong constantly. It is impossible… but they want you to feel otherwise. 

08/07/2022

How to know when a narcissist is trying to get control over you.

When someone is manipulating you or attempting to alter your perception sometimes they will do this they will use the same word or phrase repeatedly. It might sound something like this “you don’t know the details, the details are different. your perception is wrong I know the true details of the situation I was there. So until you know the real details I am done having this conversation.” As you can see they use the word details over and over again trying to alter the way your brain thinks and is receiving information. If they want you to believe that you are crazy they will use words such as “your perception” or “your reality” or “in the real world.” If your partner is doing any of these things you are being manipulated and controlled most likely by very tactical narcissist.

“Jamie Larsen”
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08/06/2022

Lonely…….

Have you ever realized how lonely it is when you are in a relationship with a narcissist they can be in the same room with you and you still feel alone. That is because they are emotionally withdrawn from you. We are so confused because of the love bombing stage in the beginning how this person seems to have changed overnight and all those great loving emotions have turned into hateful spiteful hurtful cold undertones. That’s because the love bombing stage is fake it is all fake narcissist once again depending on where they are in the scale don’t feel empathy or sympathy to the degree that we need in order to sustain a healthy relationship. If you’re dealing with a malignant narcissist which is pretty much antisocial personality disorder then they are emotionally impotent entirely void of the capability of caring or nurture. When they do show love or nurture it is false it is just the mask they are wearing. It’s very hard to accept the person you love and care for doesn’t love you but you have to realize and you must accept that they can’t even if they wanted to. It is best for you to become indifferent, to start the journey of separation to remember that all the hurtful things they say and do is the real them take the steps to safely let go so you can find love and be loved where you can love and have it in return.

“Jamie Larsen”

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08/06/2022

This!!!!!! When people really love you they try not to hurt you and when they do hurt you they feel bad and try to make amends remember that because that’s not what narcissist do. Narcissist destroy you they shatter you into pieces then hate you for not being whole and expect you to put yourself back together again. Then the cycle goes on and on

08/05/2022

Victim: Why is this woman sending you pictures?
Narcissist: why are you violating my privacy and going through my phone? victim: I saw it on the screen and why are you acting mad at me when you have pictures of other women on your phone?
Narcissist: I haven’t done anything wrong stop attacking me it’s your fault you went looking for something until you found something and now you wanna play the victim!
Victim: wait what? I am the victim you’re cheating on me!
narcissist: you know what I am so tired of you accusing me of cheating on you I should cheat on you I’m tired of you attacking me treating me like this The only place I’m cheating on you is in your crazy head
Victim: but there’s pictures right here to prove it you are literally in the pictures with her
Narcissist: you know what I think that you’re framing me I think you created those that’s what I think I think you’re that crazy and jealous and insecure. 
Victim: now is pushed to “reactive abuse”
Narcissist: see how abusive you are I’m not taking this anymore I should leave you right now violating me going through my things screaming at me yelling at me I mean just look at you look what I have to put up with ….and then leaves

Victim because of Trauma bonding then experiences a sense of overwhelming panic even though she knew the truth she saw it she’s terrified of abandonment and she will take them back again this is trauma bonding and it is horrific

Jamie Larsen