10/15/2021
S*xual Chemistry is Largely How We Smell
It's common to exclaim that physical attraction is the motivating factor for dating and having s*x with a new person. Although how we look influences who we are attracted to, our unique smells in the hair in our bodies is the main attractant. The smells are called pheromones. All animals seem to have them.
Pheromones are extremely strong chemical substances which give off an irresistible and a tantalizing combination of conscious and unconscious scents that spontaneously attracts animals—including human lovers—to each other. (“I have a nose for you!”). These ravenous pheromones lock into each other and few can resist acting on their highly charged arousal.
We cannot control whose pheromones turn us on, but we can control what we do about our delicious craving. If the person is not appropriate, we can leave the area. Or, we can listen to the chemical message and act on our desire for that person with that person with unrestrained gusto.
When the pheromone attraction exists, it is usually mutual. I have had s*x therapy clients who fondly recall a particular lover as irresistible. When I ask why this is so, many—if not most—argue that is the allure of that person.
No s*x therapist can change a person’s pheromones. I advise not covering up natural smells with scented products such as perfume, cologne or scented soaps or deodorants. The scents can interfere with our natural smells which may attract another. If you use a mild soap and an unscented deodorant, your natural and exquisite smells can draw you to another and vice versa.
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It is common to exclaim that physical attraction is the motivating factor for dating and having s*x with a new person. Although how we look influences who we are attracted to, our unique smells in the hair in our bodies is the main attractant. The smells are called pheromones. All animals seem to ha...
