Kristin Rivas

02/27/2026

How does that money block 🚫 live in your system?

Does it live in the price you're too afraid to charge?

In the raise you haven't asked for?

In the leadership role you're not quite ready to fully inhabit?

In the way you over-explain, over-deliver, over-justify — just in case?

It's limiting your income.

It's affecting what you charge.

It's affecting how you ask for the promotion.

It's affecting whether you publish the thing, pitch the client, claim the title, send the invoice without the discount you added because full price felt like too much.

This is the deserve threshold. And every woman I've ever worked with has one.

It's the neural set point your brain established — probably in childhood, definitely in a culture that had very specific opinions about ambitious women — for how much success, wealth, visibility, and power you're allowed to claim before your nervous system sounds the alarm.

Above that threshold?

Your brain starts generating friction.

It could be an illness before launches.

Sudden self-doubt right before you name the number.

The apology that comes out before anyone even objects.

It's not weakness. It's not lack of confidence.

It's a prediction your nervous system is running based on outdated data...and we can update it.

I know how to help you painlessly transform it into an expansion for your own abundance.

It doesn't have to keep costing you. Your future is unlimited if you act to intentionally make it so. It's science 🌌✨️

Trust me, I’ve done these expansion processes for myself and I've assisted hundreds of clients over the past 16 years...no one regrets it and everyone wishes they'd done it sooner💯😉🤑🤗💞

🔗 In my bio to get an expansion process and book your money block breakthrough session.

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02/26/2026

Don’t know if you've noticed 👀 but it looks to me like the world could use some matriarchy for a change 🙄🙏 (Comment or share if you agree 😉)

So this year, I'm running a series every week called — ancient strategy, modern neuroscience, raising one woman's ceiling at a time.

Because the world could use more Fire Horse Leader Women 🔥

Save this post to capture the wisdom.

Tag @ or share with a woman who inspires the best in you!

Let her know you’re claiming FIRE HORSE ENERGY for you both this year.

It's time to root for each other 💞🕊
A rising tide lifts all boats🙏 ☮️🌎✌️

02/25/2026

Have watched you the All's Fair series on Hulu?

The All's Fair discourse is showing us something more interesting than anyone's talking about.

Six powerful women — Kim K, Sarah Paulson, Glenn Close, Niecy Nash, Naomi Watts, Teyana Taylor — playing wealthy, unapologetically ambitious attorneys.

Dripping in money.
Comfortable with power.
Refusing to soften themselves for anyone's comfort.

And the response?

"OMG, what is she wearing?" "She's too much." "I can't root for her." "Why is she so ____ (greedy, cold, etc.)?"

Nobody says that about Harvey Specter.
Nobody says that about Tony Soprano.
Nobody says that about any man who occupies power without apology on screen.

So ask yourself honestly: when you watch a woman in that show claim her power without asking permission — what happened in your body?

Because that reaction? That's not just a cultural opinion.

That's your deserve threshold making itself visible.

The deserve threshold is the neural set point your nervous system established — before your first negotiation, before your first promotion, before you knew the word "ambition" — for how much success you're allowed to claim before the alarm sounds.
It shows up as:

— The price you backed down right before you published it
— The justification you added to the ask that needed no justification
— The apology that came out before anyone even objected
— The success that should feel like enough, but somehow doesn't feel safe to fully inhabit
You're not broken. You're running outdated programming.

And the way women talk about powerful women on screen is a direct map to how they're limiting themselves in real life.

I made a free audio for this exact moment.

The 5 Neural Blocks & Merging Into Expansion Process — a brain-based guide through the 5 patterns creating your deserve threshold, plus a guided process to begin dissolving them at the neural level.
Not mindset. Not affirmations. Actual change at the level where the pattern lives.

👉 Free download 🔗 link in bio.

Save this. Tag a woman who felt something watching All's Fair and couldn't name it.

BrainBasedCoaching WomenWhoLead

02/25/2026

You've negotiated for everyone else. Why is your own salary still a confrontation?

The real reason you haven't asked for the raise — and it has nothing to do with confidence.

At least not the way confidence is usually talked about. It's a nervous system problem.

And that means it's solvable in a fundamentally different way than anything you've tried before.

Your brain is protecting you from your next income level and it just needs to learn a new pattern. 🧠

Let's change it.

There are specific neural patterns I see consistently in high-achieving women — patterns that operate below conscious awareness, running in the background of every sales conversation, salary negotiation, every pricing decision, and every moment you almost said a bigger number and then didn't.

I'm going to walk you through them when you download the audio 🔗 in my bio.

And then I'm going to guide you through a process—a brain-based process that directly targets the one pattern that underlies all the others.

Not a visualization.
Not an affirmation.
An actual neurological intervention that creates what researchers call a prediction error — the mechanism by which your brain updates a pattern it's been running for years, sometimes decades.

02/24/2026

Patriarchal wealth systems were built on extraction, scarcity, and competition. You don't have to replicate that to build real financial power.

Brain-based wealth work helps you build money in a way that's rooted in worth — not fear, not hustle, not self-betrayal.

You're not undercharging because you don't know your value.

You're undercharging because your nervous system won't let you claim it.

Worked with coaches who simply just told you to raise your prices and your body said no?

Here's why:

There’s an upper limit to our wealth, joy, and ease capacity. It isn't just a concept. It's a measurable neural pattern that impacts your nervous system.
And it can be shifted.

Check out the 🔗 in my bio to download my audio 🔊:

🧠 5 Neural Patterns Keeping High Achieving Women Financially Capped

You'll get a powerful process to transform the common wealth block...the foundation to shifting everything 😉🫶

02/21/2026

02/19/2026

Date night 💞🌹

Thanks to for a lovely night. Their mission to unite the cultural divides among us through love and the joy of music and humor is such a gift.

A big shout out to their fundraising work for The MISSION of Tuskegee Airmen Inc. (TAI) is twofold:

1) To PRESERVE the LEGACY of the Original Tuskegee Airmen, African Americans who participated in air crew, ground crew and operations support training in the Army Air Corps during WWII, and..

2) To engage with YOUTH to inspire future careers in Aviation, Aerospace and STEM.

02/18/2026

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02/17/2026

BBH fam (and curious newcomers who turn into future BBH fam 👀) —

It’s that time again.
Monthly Live Q&A. Ask. Me. Anything.

This is your chance to pick my brain on:

🧠 Brain-based healing techniques
😵‍💫 Conversational hypnosis & subconscious rewiring
⁉️ Client resistance + stuck cases
💞 Attachment patterns + emotional regulation
📈 Biz growth for healers who want impact & income
😁 Live demos (yes, the fun kind)

If you’ve ever thought…
“How would you handle this client?”
“What do you say when…?”
“Why isn’t this technique landing?”
“How do I create breakthroughs faster?”

Bring it! 😎😉

These calls are unfiltered, practical, and deeply strategic. I don’t gatekeep. I don’t fluff. I teach you how to think, how to see patterns, and how to intervene with precision.

And if you’re not inside BBH yet — this is the perfect time to experience the energy and depth for yourself. There’s a free 7-day trial, which means you can come to the live, participate in demos, and see exactly how we roll.

If you’re serious about creating consistent breakthroughs — for yourself or your clients — come sit in the room.

Drop your questions below or bring them live.
Let’s make your brain better at changing brains. 😉

🔗Link to join is in my bio.

02/16/2026

I'm so lucky to have found a partner that loves me so deeply, is so thoughtful, romantic, and compatible to me...

Someone who gets me, grows with me, supports me and my mission/my other loves in life...

Someone who says, "You've been working really hard, rising above the trauma and pain of the past despite the current chaos and I'm proud of you, you're killing it! I booked you a day to treat yourself." 💞

We both have the entrepreneurial spirit and decided to focus on building businesses rather than have kids.

AND WE ABSOLUTELY, UNAPOLOGETICALLY LOVE THE FREEDOM WE HAVE 😎

Best decsion for us ❤️

There was a time when I was heartbroken by my experiences with men and by the second hand horrors I'd been privy to in my work with clients since I was 22 yrs old. A time where I was happy to be a single dog owner when I was completely okay with the idea of never getting married. A time I knew my own limiting beliefs and trust issues would have to change if I ever wanted a healthy, amazing, ride or die kind of guy.

Then I met Shaun, we were friends for years, dating others until one day we became single at the same time. We met for lunch to recap the craziness we'd been experiencing with online dating. One of us looked at the other and asked "Why don't we just date and save ourselves from this mess 😅?"

I proceeded to grill the man for hours with the 36 questions that lead to love, interviewing for longterm compatibility...didn't want to ruin our friendship. He passed the test/checked all my green flags ✅️

At one point I actually experienced a legitmate download - a prophetic flash before my eyes of our future together when he held my hand. 🥰

I felt Spirit/Higher Wisdom tell me this was my life partner. I'm SO GLAD I TRUSTED MY 💗the wisdom that guided us/brought us together.

We've been through many ups and downs, amazing seasons of life in our 9 yrs as a couple. And there's been a peace that surpass understanding the entire time. 🕊🦋🌈💘

All that to say...if it can happen to me, it can happen to you...if you want it girl/guy - go get it! 🤗

P.S. Single or coupled - do yourself a favor and try Alice Mushroom Choclates 😉

02/15/2026