Jessa Zimmerman Couples Counseling & Sex Therapy

03/08/2026

I love this video. Paul Joannides wrote the Guide to Getting it On - one of the best books about s*x I've read. He is now producing great videos. This one is all about the cl****is!

03/08/2026

Everydayhealth.com is giving us the run down on what s*x therapy is and even lets us know what s*x therapy is not. https://www.everydayhealth.com/s*xual-health/s*x-therapy.aspx

03/07/2026

One of the most common suggestions I made to couples in therapy is to get some conversation starters. Might seem like a gimmick, but it really helps! You get new questions to consider, and you can learn things about each other…and yourself!

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03/07/2026

"Regulators and researchers have shockingly limited information on how condoms hold up in a**l as opposed to vaginal s*x, two entirely different physical contexts, involving discrete types of tissue, muscle force, and natural lubrication, or lack thereof."

And it's not even "the riskiest kind of s*x for disease transmission."

03/07/2026

I talk a lot about the importance of selfishness in good s*x. But the opposite is also true - make space for your partner to be selfish, as well. Encourage them to seek their pleasure. Be a willing participant in their desires. Prioritize what they want as much as you do your own.
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03/06/2026

03/06/2026

So many condoms, so many choices.

http://nymag.com/strategist/article/9-best-condoms-reviewed-by-size-and-need-2018.html

03/06/2026

Desire discrepancy is universal (because why would any two people want exactly the same amount of s*x?)...

But it does not need to be experienced as a problem.

There are ways to navigate it that bring you closer, that allow you to collaborate, that create a s*x life you can both truly look forward to.

If differences in desire are creating any strain, guilt, conflict, resentment, or distance in your relationship, my ebook could help!

https://intimacywithease.com/desirebook

03/05/2026

Maybe this seems obvious. But many people struggle to want. They've learned to cut off their own desires. They've been trained to be people pleasers or to focus on others. They've been disappointed so consistently in their lives that they stopped wanting. But connecting to desire is crucial in s*x. Are you in touch with your own wanting?

03/05/2026

Stuck in negative stories? Tune into the latest *xPodcast with host Jessa Zimmerman as she dives into the power of positivity and how to rewrite those old narratives. 🌟 Get inspired to change your perspective and enhance your intimate relationships! 👉 Listen at https://intimacywithease.com/370

03/05/2026

Join me for this free training to learn the 3 most common mistakes that keep you struggling with s*x instead of having it be an easy, fun, and natural part of your relationship.

All kinds of great couples still struggle with s*x. It's totally normal to hit roadblocks - whether it's different levels of desire, lack of desire, s*xual dysfunction, or any other of the myriad of things that can make your s*x life difficult.

If you are an otherwise happy couple, you are the perfect fit for this training! Join me to:

Discover the 3 BIG mistakes that keep you stuck in your s*x life. (If you focus on these traps, you can completely change how you interact around s*x.)

Learn the 4 most important aspects you can implement to remove the conflict and stress in the bedroom.

See how any otherwise happy couple can make s*x engaging for you both (and improve your relationship in the process).

You can register at http://www.intimacywithease.com/training

03/04/2026

High S*x Drive: Explanation, Causes, and Management https://www.juiceboxit.com/blog/211/high-s*x-drive