04/23/2026
Well said
reversing the focus back on the self and do the work ourselves rather than putting all we need on the other person and expecting them to do all the changing
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTkx3x2Rg/
This doesn’t mean tolerating behavior that hurts you. It means recognizing where your power actually is. You can’t force your partner to change, but you can learn how to understand your needs, communicate them clearly, set boundaries, and decide what you will do if those needs aren’t met.