10/23/2025
I see it all the time. People white knuckle their sobriety, refusing to invest time, energy or money into real recovery. They tell themselves they can do it alone. But what they’re really doing is avoiding the discomfort of facing their authentic selves.
So they grip tighter. They try to control it. They avoid the mirror work, the therapy, the coaching, the community. And eventually, the inevitable happens. They go back to old coping mechanisms, because that’s all they know.
This is why it’s so important to have a plan. To uncover your triggers. To dig into the parts of yourself you’ve been suppressing.
It’s uncomfortable. It’s scary. But this is the real work of sobriety. The part that builds peace instead of pressure, freedom instead of fear.
The part that changes everything.