Sattva Wellness & Counseling

Sattva Wellness & Counseling Jannine Pergola LMHC, CCH, RYT. Jannine is a NYS Licensed Mental Health Counselor for 20+years.

01/02/2026

Brain is not wired to seek truth it’s wired to detect patterns and repetition. Neuroscientists have found that the more a thought is repeated, the more likely it is to be accepted as truth by the brain, regardless of whether it’s factually correct. This phenomenon is called the “illusion of truth effect.”

Repeated thoughts strengthen neural pathways. Each time you think something, it becomes easier to think again. Over time, this can turn false ideas into deeply held beliefs. If someone repeatedly tells themselves they are not good enough, the brain eventually accepts this as reality even if it started as a passing thought.

The brain values consistency. It wants to resolve conflict between what you believe and what you experience. So, it begins to filter information, ignoring facts that contradict your repeated thoughts and amplifying the ones that match. This is how cognitive bias is formed and reinforced.

Breaking this cycle requires conscious effort. Positive self-talk, mindfulness, and intentional exposure to new information can help rewire the brain. Your inner voice shapes your outer world, and your thoughts sculpt your brain over time.

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12/27/2025

Psychologists agree that boys begin forming deep beliefs about women very early in life. Long before logic or values talks matter, children absorb meaning through observation. What they see daily becomes their emotional blueprint.

The behavior that matters most is how a father treats the child’s mother or female caregivers. Tone of voice, respect, patience, and care are quietly recorded by a child’s brain as normal and expected.

When boys witness kindness, shared responsibility, and calm problem solving, their nervous system links women with safety and respect. When they see dismissal, irritation, or silence, the brain learns a very different lesson.

Children do not separate adult stress from character. They assume behavior equals truth. A father may believe he is teaching values through words, but his daily actions speak louder than any rule or lecture.

This is not about perfection. It is about awareness. Repair, apology, and respect matter deeply. Every interaction becomes a lesson in how relationships work. Boys grow into men who repeat what felt familiar. The way women are treated in the home quietly shapes how sons will treat women for the rest of their lives.

12/19/2025

Our brains don’t actually perceive time – they infer it.

12/12/2025

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Setauket-East Setauket, NY

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