02/14/2026
Max Update:
Max took a bit of a break from his therapy dog training last year - because well- I (Vanessa) was overwhelmed with feeling like there were so many things I had to change in him, control around him, etc. I felt a lot like our parents feel here!
Cue 2026. Max and I are back to it- with his amazing teacher from Paws and Possibilities (Jovone) coming here to work with us! We are two sessions in and seeing BIG changes already! I had to come and share because I’ve been floored with the changes between the changes I’m getting as Max’s handler and the things we teach parents. Here are my top ten things I’ve learned from Jovone in the last two weeks - all of which are spot on for parenting as well!
It’s all about YOU— Learn to control yourself instead of focusing on controlling your dog. Less pushing and pulling, and more leadership!
It’s all about connection- When you are focused in and present with your dog, they are more likely to be in tune with, engaged with, and responsive to you. Learn how to work WITH them and not against them.
Be consistent— Kids and dogs know they can trust us and respect us when they know they can count on us— if we are all over the place — so are they.
Be clear — We can’t perform to expectations when we don’t know what they are.
Be sure — Don’t falter, half commit, or say something and not back it up…. Do you follow a leader who is uncertain?
Give them your full attention — How often do we give something or someone our half attention because we are so busy? Partial attention and effort does not result in compliance. It results in disrespect and/ or bad behaviors to get unmet needs for attention met.
Be realistic — You will make mistakes, you will not be perfect, you will have challenging moments - and so will they! The goal is not perfection, it’s showing up, being present, and continuing to try - together!
Know when to reset — When things are starting to go off the rails, know how and when to reset, focus on again, and move forward again from a place of control not desperation/ frustration.
Be attuned — Know what your dog needs and advocate for this - if we are not attuned to and protecting their needs…
