Miller-Macari Family Funeral Home

11/06/2025

Music has an incredible power to comfort us when words fail, especially when honoring a loved one. 🎶

Whether it's a timeless classic or a personal melody, the right song can be a bridge between grief and healing.

What song reminds you of someone special? ❤️

This document,

11/05/2025

Feeling overwhelmed by the paperwork and responsibilities after a loved one's passing? You're not alone. 📋

Managing an estate is one of the most daunting tasks we can face during grief. But it doesn't have to feel like chaos. Our new blog post, "Finding Order in Grief," offers a compassionate, step-by-step approach to navigating this complex process.

It breaks down everything from securing documents to handling personal belongings with care. For a comprehensive roadmap, download our free estate management guide from the blog.

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11/04/2025

Grieving during the holidays? 💔

You're not alone. This season, your only responsibility is to care for your heart.

Learn gentle ways to set boundaries and protect your peace with these five strategies. It's an act of profound self-compassion. ✨

The primary responsibility for someone grieving during the holidays is to care for their heart. It explains that grief is a part of the holiday experience and that setting boundaries is an act of self-compassion, not about shutting people out.

11/02/2025

View Reverend Russell Lesiw's obituary, send flowers, find service dates, and sign the guestbook.

11/02/2025

Today, on All Souls' Day, we join hearts around the world in quiet remembrance. 🤍

It is a day to honor those we have loved and lost, to speak their names, and to hold their memories close. Though they are no longer with us, their presence remains in the stories we share, the love we carry, and the legacy they left behind.

To everyone remembering a loved one today: you are not alone. May their memory be a gentle and lasting blessing.

11/01/2025

A little extra rest can be a small gift during a season that often demands so much from our hearts and minds. 💤

As daylight saving time ends and the nights grow longer, may this change offer you a moment of quiet restoration. In grief, rest is not a luxury—it is an essential part of healing.

Be kind to yourself. Your heart is doing hard work, even when you're still.

10/31/2025

Happy Halloween! 🎃👻 Wishing everyone a spooky and safe night filled with fun!

Now for the real question: What was your favorite Halloween candy when you were a kid? Was it a classic chocolate bar, something sour, or a random sticky sweet? Let us know in the comments! 👇🍬

10/30/2025

Halloween can be a difficult time when you're grieving. The festivities, costumes, and decorations can stir up unexpected emotions and memories. 🎃💔

In our latest blog and podcast episode, "Grieving During Halloween," we share gentle, practical ways to navigate the holiday while honoring your feelings and your loved one’s memory.

Whether you choose to skip the festivities, continue a tradition, or create something new, your grief is valid, and you deserve compassion.

You are not alone this season. Tune in to the podcast and read the blog for support and understanding.

If one of your loved ones or close friends has passed, you may find that you miss them even more around the holidays. Halloween is one holiday that we often forget about that can deeply affect someone who is grieving.

10/28/2025

Today, we honor the courage, sacrifice, and unwavering dedication of our first responders. 🚒🚑👮‍♀️

On National First Responders Day, we extend our deepest gratitude to the firefighters, paramedics, police officers, and emergency personnel who run toward danger to keep our communities safe. Their bravery often comes at a personal cost, and their service touches countless lives during moments of crisis and loss.

To all first responders and their families: thank you for your strength, your compassion, and your commitment to others. We see you, we appreciate you, and we hold you in our hearts today and always.

10/25/2025

This month, we stand with everyone navigating the often invisible weight of depression. 💛

National Depression and Mental Health Screening Month is a time to replace stigma with understanding, and silence with conversation. It’s a reminder that depression is not a choice, a weakness, or something to “just snap out of”—it’s a real and complex condition that deserves compassion, support, and professional care.

If you or someone you love is struggling, you are not alone. Help is available, and hope is real. Let’s continue to educate ourselves, offer gentle support, and remind each other that it’s okay to not be okay.

10/23/2025

What happens to the urn years after a loved one’s passing? It’s a question many families eventually face. 🕊️

In our latest blog and podcast episode, "The '5, 15, 50' Question: What to Do with the Urn Long-Term," we explore how decisions about a loved one’s ashes evolve over time—from the immediate comfort of keeping them close to planning a lasting legacy for future generations.

Whether you’re navigating this now or planning ahead, this resource offers gentle guidance on meaningful options like columbariums, cemetery burial, nature memorials, and more.

Tune in to the podcast and read the blog to find peace in planning.

Families' needs and decisions regarding a loved one's urn evolve over time. The best decision balances emotional needs with practical considerations across generations, with some families opting to keep a portion of ashes while placing the rest in a permanent memorial.

10/23/2025

New Day Bereavement Program @
St. Thomas the Apostle Church733Oxford Rd. Oxford, CT 06478
Those who are grieving the death of a loved one need to proactively work through their grief. One way that may be helpful is to participate in the bereavement support group called the New Day Program. This program consists of ten two-hour weekly meetings. During each meeting, participants work through one component of the grieving process, guided by the New Day Journal.
We will be offering the ten week New Day Bereavement Program beginning on Sunday, December 7th from 6:30-8:30pm. The program is free. Registration is required. Must RSVP by December 1st. If you would like to register, please contact Maryjane at 203-888-2382 ext 104 or pastoralcare@stthomasoxford.org