Reid Professional Counseling Center, PLLC

11/09/2025

How trust is lost and gained.

10/05/2025

Neuroscience is uncovering a startling truth about the power of the human mind: the more we fear something, the more likely it becomes to happen. This phenomenon is explained by a process called predictive coding, where the brain constantly forecasts outcomes based on past experiences, emotions, and expectations.

When fear dominates your thoughts, your brain interprets that focus as a signal of importance. Neural circuits then become wired to look for, interpret, and even create circumstances that confirm the feared outcome. In other words, the brain starts shaping reality to match its strongest predictions.

For example, someone with a deep fear of failure may unconsciously act in ways that sabotage their own success, hesitating, second-guessing, or avoiding opportunities. Over time, the brain’s predictions become self-fulfilling prophecies. Similarly, constant fear of illness may heighten stress, weaken immunity, and ironically increase vulnerability to the very condition being feared.

This doesn’t mean the brain magically creates external events, but it powerfully influences perception, decision-making, and behavior. By focusing obsessively on what we fear, we give it space to grow and take root in our lives.

The good news is that predictive coding works both ways. If the brain amplifies fear when we focus on it, it can also amplify positive outcomes when we train it to focus on hope, resilience, and possibility. Shifting focus reshapes neural pathways, allowing new patterns and outcomes to emerge.

Neuroscience proves that fear is not just an emotion, it is an architect of experience. By changing what we give our attention to, we can change the future we create.

06/20/2025

So so true

05/29/2025

So profound

Sometimes, it’s not the love we remember most—it’s the pain that keeps replaying, looping in our minds like a cruel echo. The heart can’t delete what the mind won’t let go of. When your mind starts to ruminate, try grounding yourself in the present, acknowledging your emotions without judgment, and taking small steps to disrupt the cycle with self-compassion. Healing isn’t about forgetting, but about learning to live with what we can’t erase. What helps you find peace when your mind won’t stop replaying the past?