01/09/2026
Recognizing what you have right in front of you and choosing gratitude…
I know I speak about my husband often, but choosing a life partner, truly choosing one, is incredibly important, especially when you’re walking a deep spiritual path and committed to mastering your life.
Edward and I have been making a lot of changes lately, and our bodies are in full recalibration mode. This time, we, together, are choosing longevity and sustainable fitness and health. I’m usually someone who needs an end goal or a competition to thrive, but why not just thrive in life itself. We’re on this journey together now, and I am so incredibly proud of him.
This past week has been a little rough around the edges as I work to recomp my body, but everything is moving in the right direction. And honestly, sometimes it’s okay to step away for a moment to really understand what you want.
Somewhere in the middle of all this, I misplaced one of the bands from my wedding set. Even though it was the least expensive piece, we bought it at a pawn shop before eloping at The Little White Chapel, it meant something to me.
Today, Edward came home with the most beautiful surprise. A bouquet of flowers with affirmations for graduating my doctoral program. He quietly took my other rings, replaced the band I lost, and had the ring from his grandmother (Grandma Ducky) polished and tightened. He even had my engagement ring polished, and then handed me another ring that is absolutely stunning.
I had simple, quiet tears of happiness, not just for the gifts, but for the heart behind them. It reminded me that it’s never about what you receive, it’s about the sentiment, the intention, and the love woven into the gesture. It’s about recognizing the person who sees you, honors you, and chooses you every day.
It’s his heart I’d choose a million times over.