02/11/2026
I went thrifting with my husband and it reminded me of something important.
We don’t all see value the same way.
His taste is refined.
Clean. Obvious. Easy yes.
Mine is curated.
I’m looking for structure. For potential. For what could be built.
And that’s how I approach birth and lactation too.
Not everything shows its value at first glance.
Sometimes the best outcomes come from knowing what to look for —
and what not to walk past too quickly.
Birth isn’t about the perfect plan.
It’s about understanding the pieces you’re working with
and putting them together in a way that works for you.
That’s curated.
