Bendy Menopause

Bendy Menopause Vanessa Weiland, NP, HT, MSCP (she/her). Founder of Phases Clinic in Washington State (Telehealth, Shoreline, North Bend). Click the bio for free quiz & more!

We specialize in menopause and hypermobility care where science meets compassion.

✨ Taking control of your hormonal health starts with being heard and cared for.💖 Experience thoughtful, patient-centered...
01/23/2026

✨ Taking control of your hormonal health starts with being heard and cared for.

💖 Experience thoughtful, patient-centered care that helps you feel your best—discover care that aligns with your needs and book a Clarity Consultation today! Link in bio.

If you notice:• feeling better → then crashing hours or days later• fatigue that doesn’t improve with rest• sleep proble...
01/22/2026

If you notice:
• feeling better → then crashing hours or days later
• fatigue that doesn’t improve with rest
• sleep problems, anxiety, or pain
• difficulty trusting your body

…you’re not alone.

✨ Book a one-on-one Clarity Consultation to take the first step toward understanding your body. We’ll review your concerns, explore contributing factors, and outline your best next steps—so you can move forward with confidence. 💖

👉Book now! Click the link in bio.

Sleep problems are very common in hypermobility and autonomic nervous system dysfunction.Poor sleep is linked to worse f...
01/21/2026

Sleep problems are very common in hypermobility and autonomic nervous system dysfunction.

Poor sleep is linked to worse fatigue, more pain, higher anxiety, and lower quality of life.

Keeping sleep predictable helps calm the nervous system and lowers overall stress.
You don’t need perfect sleep.
You need steady sleep timing.

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Rebuilding energy in a sensitive, hypermobile body can feel risky.You have a better day.You do a little more.Then — some...
01/21/2026

Rebuilding energy in a sensitive, hypermobile body can feel risky.

You have a better day.
You do a little more.
Then — sometimes hours or days later — you crash.

This isn’t a motivation problem.
It’s a regulation and recovery problem.

Adrenaline can help temporarily, but it doesn’t build real capacity — and it doesn’t last. Daily life costs more energy in hypermobility and dysautonomia.

Understanding the better → crash pattern matters.

👉 Read the full blog. Link in bio!

✨ Feeling truly heard and supported can make all the difference in your wellness journey.💖 Discover care that aligns wit...
01/16/2026

✨ Feeling truly heard and supported can make all the difference in your wellness journey.

💖 Discover care that aligns with your needs—book a Clarity Consultation today!

When energy becomes unpredictable in Bendy Menopause, pacing helps protect nervous system capacity and allows tolerance ...
01/15/2026

When energy becomes unpredictable in Bendy Menopause, pacing helps protect nervous system capacity and allows tolerance to rebuild. Here’s how pacing can look in practice:

• Limit activity before symptoms flare
Stop or slow down before fatigue, pain, or other symptoms increase. This prevents push-through-and-crash cycles and protects physiologic margin.

• Break activities into smaller segments
Divide movement or tasks into manageable portions to reduce cumulative load and make recovery more reliable.

• Alternate exertion with planned recovery
Balance activity with intentional rest periods to lower background autonomic strain and give the nervous system space to settle.

• Start movement in recumbent or supported positions
Minimize orthostatic stress at first, and progress activity only as tolerance allows.

• Track patterns with wearables or symptom logs, not performance
Use heart rate, HRV, or symptom tracking to recognize thresholds and trends over time, rather than aiming for specific numbers.

Ease is not avoidance. It’s a way of protecting nervous system capacity so energy can return gradually and more predictably.

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For many people in Bendy Menopause, rest lowers symptoms but doesn’t reliably restore energy.Recovery takes longer.Sympt...
01/14/2026

For many people in Bendy Menopause, rest lowers symptoms but doesn’t reliably restore energy.

Recovery takes longer.
Symptoms flare more easily.
Tolerance feels unpredictable.

This pattern is common in people with hypermobility, dysautonomia, or sensitive nervous systems—especially during the menopausal transition, when autonomic regulation becomes less stable and physiologic margin is reduced.

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For many people with hypermobility, dysautonomia, or sensitive nervous systems, menopause acts as a turning point.Activi...
01/14/2026

For many people with hypermobility, dysautonomia, or sensitive nervous systems, menopause acts as a turning point.

Activities that once felt manageable can begin to trigger symptom exacerbation. Rest helps temporarily, but recovery is less predictable, and tolerance narrows. This pattern—what I refer to as Bendy Menopause—reflects reduced physiologic margin during a period of autonomic and musculoskeletal change.

In this transition, pacing is not avoidance. It’s an evidence-aligned approach to activity management that helps prevent push-through-and-crash cycles by matching demand to current capacity.

The full blog explores why menopause functions as an autonomic stress test, how hypermobility and dysautonomia increase load, and why ease has to come before energy.

🔗 Read the full blog post (link in bio)

Ever notice that rest doesn’t restore energy the way it used to?For many bendy bodies in menopause, the issue isn’t moti...
01/13/2026

Ever notice that rest doesn’t restore energy the way it used to?

For many bendy bodies in menopause, the issue isn’t motivation or resilience—it’s reduced physiologic margin. Ease has to come first before energy can return.

In this new blog, I explore pacing, nervous system load, hypermobility, dysautonomia, and why “doing less” can sometimes be the most evidence-based move.

👉 Read the full blog: https://www.phasesclinic.com/blog/why-ease-has-to-come-before-energy-in-bendy-menopause

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✨ Feeling truly seen and supported during perimenopause can make all the difference!💖 Ready to feel that kind of support...
01/09/2026

✨ Feeling truly seen and supported during perimenopause can make all the difference!

💖 Ready to feel that kind of support? Book a Clarity Consultation—link in bio!

We’re excited to share our refreshed website 💻✨Our new look is designed to make it easier to:• Find the support you need...
01/09/2026

We’re excited to share our refreshed website 💻✨

Our new look is designed to make it easier to:
• Find the support you need
• Explore our programs and services
• Learn about your hormones with clarity and confidence

Same heart. Same evidence-based care.
Just a clearer, more supportive space to meet you where you are.

✨ Website facelift by
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16300 Aurora Avenue N, Suite A
Shoreline, WA
98133

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