12/31/2025
🌿 We Repeat What We Don’t Repair
Unhealed pain doesn’t disappear with time.
It shows up in patterns—our relationships, reactions, parenting, boundaries, and even our faith.
What we don’t repair, we tend to repeat.
đź§ The brain is wired to default to what is familiar, not what is healthy.
Without healing, old wounds quietly shape present choices.
This can look like:
• Reacting instead of responding
• Choosing familiar but unhealthy relationships
• Struggling with trust or emotional safety
• Repeating cycles of people-pleasing, control, or withdrawal
• Parenting from our wounds instead of awareness
đź“– Scripture reminds us:
“See to it that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.” — Hebrews 12:15
God cares about the roots—not just the behaviors.
🌱 Repair Leads to Freedom
Healing begins when we:
âś” Acknowledge what hurt us
âś” Name the patterns we see
âś” Invite God into the painful places
âś” Seek support and wise counsel
âś” Choose growth instead of avoidance
📖 “He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds.” — Psalm 147:3
✨Healing isn’t about blaming the past—it’s about breaking cycles.
When we choose repair, we choose freedom—for ourselves and the next generation.
You don’t have to repeat what God wants to redeem.