12/19/2025
Children (or really anyone of any age) should not be required to hug or kiss someone when saying hello or goodbye. They have the right to say "no" even if it is a close family member or close friend.
If your child does not want to hug or kiss, we need to respect that. No guilt or shame. They should not be told they need to do it to make the other person feel good.
There are many ways to greet someone that do not include touch. And honestly, for some kids, even a verbal hello or goodbye might be too much for them. Work with where the child is at. Model polite and respectful behavior and empower them to be in charge of their bodies in this way.