02/05/2026
Babies who cry instantly when set down aren’t “spoiled”—they’re overwhelmed. The most common reason? Their nervous system doesn’t feel safe unless held. This can happen from birth stress, neck tension, sensory overload, or an overactive startle reflex. When their body is tense, their brain stays on high alert, making independent soothing nearly impossible. Supporting the spine + nervous system helps babies relax when put down so they can rest… and so can you.
Share this with a parent who feels guilty for holding their baby “too much.”