12/08/2025
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đ The Dance of Poles: Lifting and Transforming Sexual Energy
Sexual energy is often talked about as if it only belongs in the bedroom, but when you look closer, it is actually the basic life force behind everything we do. It quietly influences our thoughts, actions, emotions, and even our spiritual growth. To feel truly healthy, happy, and fulfilled, we have to learn how to understand this energy, guide it, and raise it to a higher level.
Yin and Yang: Two Sides of One Energy
At the center of this life force are two complementary energies: the feminine (Yin) and the masculine (Yang). They arenât separate or fighting each otherâthey are two poles of the same flowing current, always moving and shifting like a swinging pendulum. This idea is key to understanding how partners connect.
This view suggests something powerful: a manâs body is mostly Yang and a womanâs body is mostly Yin, but inside their energy centers there is a reversal. The womanâs heart is Yang, and the manâs heart is Yin. When two people come together, these opposite poles create a natural energetic pull between them. This âmagneticâ meeting of energies is what creates the deep, ecstatic feeling in sexual union. In that moment, the couple isnât just sharing touch; theyâre completing a living circuit of energy.
Rising to the Higher Or**sm
Most people only ever experience the basic level of sexual pleasureâthe lower or**smâwhich mostly affects the ge****ls. It feels good, but it quickly drains energy. The body releases a lot, and afterward, most of that power is lost. Itâs a brief moment with little long-term benefit.
The higher or**sm, though, is very different. It comes from conscious, loving, connected intimacy. Instead of being limited to one part of the body, it spreads everywhereâthrough every organ, every gland, every channel. This type of or**sm:
Doesnât waste energyâit actually increases it.
Activates healing throughout the body.
Creates deeper satisfaction and a stronger emotional bond.
Lasts longer and can be repeated without the crash that follows the lower or**sm.
When Body and Soul Become One
The highest purpose of sexual energy is unionânot just physical, but spiritual. As Mantak Chia describes, when partners learn to let this energy flow freely between them, something incredible happens. The focus on the physical body starts to fade, and what remains is one shared field of energy. Two people become one moving current.
This is the full or**sm of the body and soulâa merging of Yin and Yang that lifts both partners beyond simple pleasure. It becomes a path of healing, connection, and spiritual awakening. When we learn to circulate and transform this life force, we gain the ability to strengthen our bodies, deepen our relationships, and touch something far greater than ourselves.
