Chapel Hill Funeral Home

04/06/2026

A grief poem by Rudyard Kipling we thought may be helpful today --

For a season there must be pain -
For a little, little space
I shall lose the sight of her face,
Take back the old life again
While She is at rest in the place.
For a season this pain must endure,
For a little, little while
I shall sigh more often than smile
Till Time shall work me a cure,
And the pitiful days beguile.
For that season we must be apart,
For a little length of years,
Till my life's last hour nears,
And, above the beat of my heart,
I hear Her voice in my ears.
But I shall not understand -
Being set on some later love,
Shall not know her for whom I strove,
Till she reach me forth her hand,
Saying, "Who but I have the right?"
And out of a troubled night
Shall draw me safe to the land.

04/05/2026

From Finding Nemo to Harry Potter, this article gives a great list of movies that parents can watch with their children to help understand grief and loss:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/jeanne-dennis/childrens-movies-discussing-grief_b_1340259.html

Have you seen any of these with your children or grandchildren?

04/03/2026

There comes a time to turn inward. Reflect on what it is we’re leaving to those we love. It is a true act of GREAT responsibility. Are you living in a way that is building the legacy you wish to leave?

04/01/2026

03/30/2026

The biggest motivator we've seen for planning ahead for your funeral, burial or cremation service comes from the love of your children and grandchildren. Give the greatest gift to your family and begin planning with us. We will walk you through the process in a way that's most convenient for you. Contact us at 605-335-2286 today if you'd like to start.

03/28/2026

Who was a favorite cook in your life? How do you want to be remembered?

03/26/2026

Having a visitation to speak with friends and family creates a larger support system. Listening to others who express love and concern will encourage more conversations, sharing of memories, and support. Contact us and we can start planning together.

03/24/2026

A proper funeral is an important ritual. One that we can experience with our closest family and friends as we contemplate the most important aspects of our lives.

03/22/2026

"Do Not Stand At My Grave And Weep" by Mary Elizabeth Frye

Do not stand at my grave and weep;
I am not there. I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glints on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you awaken in the morning's hush
I am the swift uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circled flight.
I am the soft stars that shine at night.
Do not stand at my grave and cry;
I am not there. I did not die.

03/20/2026

Many people find solace and comfort through creativity, no matter the type. It is a proven outlet for feeling better. Have you used creativity to help overcome loss?

03/18/2026

Funeral services don't have to be somber. In fact, seeing the significance of a life lived reminds us all how beautiful and impactful a single life can be. A funeral service helps survivors find meaning and purpose in living, even after the loss of a loved one.