12/22/2025
Pain is not a signal that something is tight, short, stuck, or needs stretching. Pain is a protective response. It is the nervous system deciding that something feels threatening, unfamiliar, or not tolerated at that moment, and it responds by increasing sensitivity. That sensitivity can show up as pain, stiffness, guarding, or a feeling of restriction, but none of that automatically means a muscle needs to be stretched.
When pain is driven by protection, stretching often misses the point entirely. People stretch harder, longer, and more frequently, yet nothing changes. Sometimes it even feels worse. That is not because they are doing the stretch wrong, but because stretching does nothing to address why the nervous system is being protective in the first place. If the body perceives movement as unsafe, forcing more range rarely convinces it otherwise. It usually reinforces the message that something is wrong.
This is why so many people end up stuck in a loop of constant stretching with no relief. The assumption is that discomfort equals tight muscles, and tight muscles need lengthening. In reality, muscles often feel tight because the nervous system is increasing tone as a protective strategy. Trying to stretch through that response is like arguing with a smoke alarm instead of checking why it is going off.
Improvement tends to come when the focus shifts away from chasing tightness and towards restoring confidence in movement. Gradual exposure to movement, changing how the body experiences load, reducing threat, and improving tolerance all matter far more than pulling harder on a muscle. When the nervous system feels safer, perceived tension often settles without anyone needing to stretch at all.
So if you have been stretching religiously and getting nowhere, that is not a failure on your part. It is a sign that pain is doing its job as a protective response, and that the solution lies in understanding the problem better, not stretching harder.