12/17/2025
“RESIST THE URGE TO MAKE YOURSELF FEEL BETTER. That’s avoidance. Let yourself feel bad, and it will pass.”
— J. Mike Fields
Resisting discomfort doesn’t make it disappear — it just asks it to show up louder later. We rush to fix, distract, numb, or “stay positive,” but sometimes the most healing thing you can do is stop trying to feel better.
Therapy, group therapy classes or emotional-release yoga create space to do exactly that. They invite you to sit with what’s uncomfortable, let it move through your body, name it, breathe with it, and allow it to complete its cycle. Feelings are temporary when they’re felt — they linger when they’re avoided.
Resist the urge to make yourself feel better.
Let yourself feel.
That’s where the release begins. ✨