Psychologist Eliane Biancolini

02/22/2023

07/15/2021

The family constellation is a proposal for therapy that helps solve both physical and mental issues that are the product of our often hidden and little understood family relationships. Through it is perfectly feasible to analyze a number of issues that may be catching or harming our lives.
It is a very deep work that brings results and relief in the short and long term to the entire family system of the participant, because there is a resignification of customer issues.
Benefits Brings results faster
Identifies hidden entanglement in the family
Greater understanding of life and the situations that arise for our learning;
Beneficial action in the issue of relationships and affective problems
Understanding the origin of problems Closes or softens repetitive patterns Improves family relationships
Brings inclusion
Mitigates many diseases

05/18/2021

How's your Family reality?

It is common to observe the family and perceive various types of difficulties such as diseases, addictions, debts, betrayals, fights, abandonment, rejection, etc. In general, these problems may be related 'to issues that go from generation to generation.
When looking at our family dynamics we must realize: if relationships are balanced, if the hierarchy is respected, if parents are honored. The systemic look is broad and perceives the mutual influence that exists among all the members of this system, it is as if they were connected by a large family. So when someone in the family is considered problematic is it just him the patient or does he reveal a sick family dynamic?
Let's look at your system!!!

05/04/2021

When we talk about the mother and her role in life and in our family system, there is an important point: being well with our mother is something that radiates throughout our lives. The way we treat our mother is the way we treat our lives.
This perception has a special meaning if we look to our mother as the gateway to our existence.
Symbolically, mother and father are intimately linked to the force of life!

04/18/2021

The history of our family belongs to us, we are linked to it. The constellation aims to dissolve ancient patterns (conflicts, diseases) that somehow impede the free flow of love between the members of a system. Our family strengthens us when we know and surrender the laws or orders that govern our system. And likewise, it weakens us when these orders are disrespected.
Through the constellation, step by step, we dissolve the unconscious family entanglements.

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04/17/2021

What role is obesity playing in your life?

You've tried to lose weight several times, do several diets and nothing! You've tried to follow a lot of people who have succeeded and you don't understand why it doesn't work with you! This may have to do with your family loyalty, if your parents, grandparents, great-grandparents were probably obese you will also be by a sense of belonging family. We must study our history, our ancestor to understand what is behind all this.

If you are, for example, a person who carries the family on his back, has a sick mother, a father in trouble, and you need to take care of everything! You'll need to have a strong structure to carry everything on your back!

Another important point to check is why the vast majority of people (and here may be obese or not) spend all day eating? These people may be filling a sense of inner emptiness, a sense of lack of love. This comes from the lack of nutrition energy, the baby feels he has not received enough love and as an adult will compensate with other things, for example food.
Well, that are some examples, we need to look at the history of each person to identify what the issue to work on!

Eliane Biancolini therapist

04/16/2021

"Healing follows the same path of disease: it begins in our intimate and passes to the body"
Bert Hellinger

Online Therapy

04/13/2021

As a rule, depressions are established when one of the parents is excluded, does not have his place!
Depression is a feeling of emptiness, not sadness.
Bert Hellinger

04/11/2021

Disorders in children – a different look at the symptom

A disease or a disorder wants to show us something, wants to bring light something that is hidden, so we must think what exactly this wants to show us.
Children who come to the family system take the pain of our ancestors!
There is a desire in this child to honor the entire family system – it may be linked to some ancestor who has been through great pain and ended up closing for life. The child then attaches himself to this emotion and may manifest a symptom because in his unconscious he knows that he will have all the necessary attention from family members because of this disease.
Let's take an example: the child with ADHD who can't focus on his studies, can't concentrate, stop for a second! We must ask ourselves - Where does this child look? They are probably looking at some family's pain that hasn't been resolved.
Therapist Eliane Biancolini
Online service

04/04/2021

Happy Easter
You've never been wrong in any of the choices you've made in your life. Each of them expressed their best, the best possible, at the level of consciousness and according to the tools you had at the time.

There is no "what if" anywhere other than your mind.
If you could go back in time, you would act exactly the way you acted, because the vision and opinion and judgment you make today could not be made at the time.
So, stop tormenting yourself for what you've done in the past. You did the best you could. And have a little more compassion for the person you were one day!
You always did and did your best.
Today is Easter, the day of being reborn. How about letting a new relationship with yourself be reborn? With more love, compassion and less judgment?