03/26/2026
Most of the pain you feel in your relationships isn’t coming from what actually happened, it’s coming from the story your mind created about what it meant.
When emotions rise, the brain naturally fills in the gaps with assumptions about people’s intentions, their tone, or what their actions say about you and if those assumptions go unverified, we start reacting to something that may not even be real.
This is how we sabotage ourselves.
The real skill is learning to separate the feeling from the story, noticing “what am I assuming right now?” and then getting curious enough to check it before treating it like truth.
Because more often than not, those assumptions aren’t accurate and when you learn how to catch and verify them, a huge amount of unnecessary hurt, anxiety, and conflict starts to dissolve.
This is something I teach all of my clients so they can move through life with more clarity, confidence, and emotional control.
If you want to learn how to do this for yourself, schedule a free call with me, or you can DM me the word RELEASE to connect.