04/14/2026
I’ve realized over the years of being a postpartum doula that a smart move is helping my clients create a meal train for family members, and I fill in the gaps with snacks for between meals while you are nap trapped or nursing/pumping. We discuss who our helpers vs visitors are during pregnancy. There are a lot of people we love, but not everyone we love is a helper. Some people only know how to be a visitor. By creating a meal train and explaining how it works to your family members (especially the visitor category) and the purpose/importance of “porch drops” this gives them a helping role without having to spell it out and feel bossy. This gets family and friends excited to know they have a role. So often family and friends want to help, but they aren’t sure how or maybe they think “holding the baby” so you can do things is helpful, when IT’S NOT. Meals are super helpful, but typically what gets missed in planning is lunch & snacks! That’s where I’ve learned to fill in the gaps. So mamas are fully nourished alllll dayyyy long 🥰
If you’re interested in postpartum planning an lactation, send me a DM or email ❤️