11/01/2023
Intuitive Eating Principle 7: Cope with Your Emotions with Kindness
This principle is all about finding kind ways to deal with the various emotions we experience in life - disappointment, boredom, anxiety, loneliness, excitement, anger, etc. We're told that emotional eating is something to be ashamed of, but it's not necessarily a bad thing. If you remember from the second principle (honor your hunger), emotional eating is one of the types of hunger.
Food is fuel, yes. But food is more than fuel - it has emotional associations. It's OK to let food bring you joy or comfort. But if you immediately experience a rush of guilt for eating for emotional reasons, the positive emotional associations are wiped away.
There's a continuum of emotional eating. Let's walk through this continuum:
π Sensory gratification is on one end of the spectrum. It's eating foods that bring pleasure and satisfaction. For example, enjoying a slice of your favorite cake on your birthday.
π Comfort is next on the spectrum. Eating comfort foods is part of having a healthy relationship with food. For example, drinking hot chocolate after a cold winter run or eating chicken noodle soup when you're feeling sick. Food shouldn't be your only comfort - but it can be one!
π Distraction is next on the spectrum. Sometimes we eat to distract ourselves from uncomfortable feelings. Like mindlessly eating chips when you're feeling anxious about an upcoming presentation.
π Sedation is second from the right on the continuum. This is eating for the purpose of numbing yourself. It involves a feeling of being out of control and zoned out.
π Punishment is last on the continuum. This severe form of emotional eating involves eating large amounts of food to invite feelings of self-loathing.
If your emotional eating falls on the intense side of the continuum, it's important to come up with other tools for coping with your emotions and seeking counseling if necessary. Identify other ways to nuture yourself - such as taking a bath, talking with a friend, doing yoga, meditating, or listening to music.
Follow along as we continue through the principles of Intuitive Eating!